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From South Korea to India, these sultry destinations are just perfect for quenching your (wander)lust

There’s nothing quite like a romantic getaway to strengthen your bond with a loved one and to create lasting memories together. When we think of such destinations, conventionally romantic places like Paris and Lake Como come to mind immediately, but beyond these, there are plenty of other lush destinations in Asia itself where pleasure and passion can be at the core of the itinerary. If you’re looking for a uniquely stimulating getaway, we have for you a selection of aphrodisiac destinations in Asia that will get your pulses racing.

So, treat yourself, and embark on a transcendent journey that intertwines sensuality, wellness and adventure.

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1. Temples of Khajuraho, India

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Erotic images carved on Khajuraho Temple, India (Photo: Getty Images)
Above Erotic images carved on Khajuraho Temple, India (Photo: Getty Images)

Khajuraho, a Unesco World Heritage site in India, is renowned for its Hindu and Jain temples, which were built between 950 and 1050 BC. The cluster of monuments is located at Chattarpur district of Madhya Pradesh, India’s central state known for indigenous art and wildlife.

Sitting at the intersection of spirituality, sensuality and architecture, this heritage destination stands out not only for its remarkable craftsmanship, but also for its unreserved approach to sexual themes widely considered taboo today. Untainted by conservative attitudes instilled during latter periods, they reveal an open-minded take on art, expression, sexuality and human desire that flourished in ancient India through erotic depictions carved in stone. The temples are well-known for its sensuous tableaus, in addition to scenes from daily life and mythology. The western group of temples, in particular, house some of the most well-preserved and iconic structures.

2. Museum of Sex & Health and Jeju Loveland, South Korea

Known for its beautiful seascapes and Unesco-recognised natural heritage sites, Jeju Island is a dreamy escape for ocean lovers.

And for lovers of a different kind, it’s also home to two rather offbeat destinations: the Museum of Sex & Health, an innovative institution dedicated to exploring wellness, sexuality and intimacy; and Loveland, a tongue-in-cheek erotic art park.

The Museum of Sex & Health spans interactive displays highlighting the importance of sexual health and site-specific installations celebrating diverse expressions of love. Its aim? To break down taboos around sexual wellness, foster open conversations, and promote a holistic understanding of human connection.

Meanwhile, Jeju Loveland showcases over 140 explicit sculptures. Their original intent was educational, as Jeju was once a popular, perennially warm honeymoon destination for newlyweds. The sculptures range from in-your-face obvious to abstract, and are sure to provoke discussion (and more than a few laughs).

3. Chimi Lhakhang Monastery, Bhutan

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Chimi Lakhang Monastery in Bhutan (Photo: Getty Images)
Above Chimi Lhakhang Monastery in Bhutan (Photo: Getty Images)

Nestled amidst the lush landscapes of Punakha region in Bhutan, Chimi Lhakhang is a monastery built in 1499. Also known as the Fertility Temple, this sacred site pays homage to Drukpa Kunley, a revered Tibetan Buddhist saint known for his unorthodox teachings. It is conveniently located about a half hour drive from the stunning Six Senses Punakha.

The temple’s most distinctive feature is its fertility blessings. Couples seeking to start a family often make the pilgrimage here, receiving symbolic phallus blessings and intricate rituals performed by the resident monks.

Beyond its cultural significance, Chimi Lhakhang offers a breathtaking panorama of the Himalayan countryside. Perched on a small hill, the temple invites pilgrims and visitors alike to traverse picturesque trails and immerse themselves in the tranquility of its surroundings. Adorned with vibrant prayer flags that flutter in the mountain breeze, Chimi Lhakhang and the village around it exude serenity.

4. Annapurna region, Nepal

What comes to mind when you think of aphrodisiacs? Perhaps oysters, dark chocolate or strawberries. But as far as potency is considered, there’s one more food that’s considered to be as powerful: honey (in fact, the term honeymoon originates from a medieval practice in which newlyweds would drink honey).

Nepal’s Himalayan region boasts a unique variety of this sweet ingredient that’s believed to offer mild intoxication, promoting relaxation and arousal. Harvested by local indigenous groups like the Gurung and Magar communities at treacherously high altitudes using minimal support—often with no more than rope ladders—this so-called “mad honey” derives its distinct sweet and spicy flavour from rhododendron flowers. It is highly coveted for its purported medicinal benefits. Mad honey hunting is a fascinating albeit a fast-fading tradition.

5. .Kanamara Matsuri, Kawasaki, Japan

Kanamara Matsuri is a lively celebration held annually in Kawasaki in Kanagawa Prefecture, just a short train ride away from central Tokyo. Typically taking place in early April, this festival is a colourful and joyous event that embraces fertility, sensuality and protection against sexually transmitted infections.

The central focus of Kanamara Matsuri is a large iron phallus, which is paraded through the streets during a vibrant procession. The Kanayama Shrine, where the festival takes place, is dedicated to a divine deity who is said to be a guardian of smooth marital relationships.

Rooted in local legends and associated with the Shinto faith, today, the Kanamara Matsuri serves a modern purpose: promoting awareness and fundraising for sexual health issues. For example, in 2023, the market and food stalls raised money for HIV/AIDS prevention and treatment.

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