From hosting Singapore’s most fashionable soirees to lounging at home in fabulous PJs, there is always a way for Shazreh Rahman to infuse any moment with inimitable style

When Shazreh Rahman hosts a shindig, one thing is certain. It will most definitely be legendary. 

“I always go all out,” she enthuses. In 2017, she hosted a Lunar New Year party where not only was the decor all red, but she also arranged for a dragon dance performance and set up traditional food stalls to serve local delights such as dumplings and kueh tutu. 

A year later, the influential stylemeister orchestrated the largest Indian fashion show in Singapore, featuring celebrated couturier Manish Malhotra who is often regarded as the Tom Ford of India. The glamorous by-invite-only event at Atlas Bar for some 400 guests was graced by Bollywood star Kareena Kapoor, who closed the show in a statement-making lehenga.

“Manish is a dear friend of mine. It was a casual conversation over dinner one day when he mentioned he wanted to hold a fashion show in Singapore and I offered to host it,” says the Singapore-based Rahman, who is married to Shayan Rahman, a second-generation director of Beximco, Bangladesh’s largest private conglomerate.

These days, in accordance with Covid-19 related guidelines, the events she hosts are scaled down to smaller dinners, luncheons or teas, but no matter how grand—or intimate—the scale, Rahman can be relied on to dial up the style quotient. “I save my best fashion moments for parties because a hostess can never be too dressed. People make an effort when they know the hostess dresses up and I like that my guests take my cue to dress up too. It elevates the party,” she says.

It is perhaps her way of bringing a little bit of Bangladesh’s high-octane glamour to the little red dot, where she has lived with her family for nine years. The couple, who have been married for almost 15 years, moved to Singapore as they felt it would be a safe and stable place to bring up a young family, while still being an easy 3.5 hour flight away from Bangladesh.  

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Above Cartier Reflection de Cartier earrings in white gold set with diamonds, High Jewellery necklace in white gold set with rubellites, coloured diamonds and diamonds, Rahman’s own turtleneck, dress Features

“Bangladeshis don’t just like to dress up—they love it,” she says, noting that unlike in Singapore, the heat is not a deterrent to getting dressed to the nines. Sartorial styles in Bangladesh vary depending on the occasion too, she says. “There’s a lot of bling and everyone’s hair and make-up is always done, always on point,” says Rahman, who used to travel to Bangladesh about once or twice a year before the pandemic.

Her style icon is her mother, who is always impeccably put together. “Even on regular days, she would wear a string of pearls around her neck; I was particularly fond of them when she wore them with her pastel sarees,” she says. “Growing up, my mum used to host beautiful parties and that’s where I learnt all of this from.”

While Rahman’s personal style defies definition as her taste spans the gamut from showstopping glitz and glamour to designer athleisure and streetwear, she does derive inspiration from her favourite destinations around the world. 

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Above Cartier Surnaturel earrings, necklace, bracelet in white gold set with emeralds, onyx and diamonds, Panthère de Cartier ring in white gold set with emeralds, onyx and diamonds, Rahman’s own On the cover: Cartier High Jewellery bracelet and ring in platinum set with sapphires and diamonds, Rahman’s own outfit

“I love the fashion vibe of Mykonos—it is fun, bohemian and cool. Italians bring out beautiful linens in summertime. Paris is a city where you want to bring out your best clothes,” she says. 

New York City and London rank high on her list of global haunts. “They are very similar in terms of fashion—you can dress down in the morning, take a 180-degree turn and get really fancy at night,” she says.

Those are perfect destinations to strut her stuff during winter, her favourite season. “You can do so much with winter clothes—the layering, jackets, boots, scarves and furs. I have a thing for boots. I wear a lot of Chanel and Christian Louboutin, as well as Stuart Weitzman on more casual occasions.” 

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Above Gucci jacket, skirt, Cartier Panthère de Cartier necklace in white gold set with sapphires, onyx and diamonds, High Jewellery ring in platinum set with sapphires and diamonds, High Jewellery figurative watch in white gold set with faceted tanzanites and diamonds

This season, Rahman reveals, will see her togged in Ralph & Russo’s exuberant couture pieces comprising sherbet-hued tie-dye sets that are grounded with classic accessories such as Cartier’s Juste Un Clou necklace. She will also be incorporating new acquisitions, such as lace-up mesh pumps and quilted mules from Bottega Veneta and a Chanel bag from the fall-winter 2021 runway collection, into her #ootds.

She is also currently in love with “easy chic” athleisure. “All the designers are doing it, including Dior, Gucci, Miu Miu, Givenchy and even Chanel. Everybody has their own interpretation of athleisure—it’s brilliant,” says Rahman, who was recently spotted out and about in London pairing sporty trainers and leggings with a chic mini Ethan K handbag.  

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Above Cartier High Jewellery earrings, necklace in platinum set with green beryl, aquamarines, rutilated quartz, tsavorite garnets, yellow diamonds and diamonds, Rahman’s own turtleneck, stole

This casual luxe approach to fashion extends to the mother of four’s personal style at home too. A homebody at heart, she exclaims, “My pyjama closet is bigger than my actual closet! I love beautiful nighties and pyjamas. Loungewear has become popular during Covid-19, but I’ve been wearing them day in and out forever. I’m practical like that, I’m not going to be in jeans and a shirt all day.”

Her primary focus, she says, is to bring up her brood, aged six to 13. “They are my priority and I give all my time to them,” says Rahman, who conceived her eldest in her first year of marriage. “My kids have different schedules and come home at different times, so there’s a bit of juggling to do. I like to read to them every night. Weekends are for lazing by the pool, watching Netflix or chilling on the patio, and I like to take them out for family lunches too.”

This is why, ultimately, what matters most is comfort. She declares, “I enjoy the drama in my clothing but it depends on the occasion and where I am going. Ultimately, I believe in wearing the clothes instead of my clothes wearing me.” 

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Above The October 2021 issue of Tatler Singapore

Credits

Photography  

Darren Gabriel Leow

Styling  

Adriel Chiun

Art Direction  

Matilda Au

Hair  

Marc Teng using Keune Hair Cosmetics

Make-Up  

Cheryl Ow using Dior Beauty

Photographer's Assistant  

Yann Cloitre

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