For Bianca Brandner, beauty is all about grace, balance, and self-love
On the surface, Bianca Brandner’s life appears quite perfect, but she confesses that not everything is as it seems. This beauty guru, life coach, and mother of three is just like most of us—often fatigued from daily to-do’s and her career, balancing family responsibilities and at times weighed down by insecurities. What she takes pride in is the fact that she does not wallow in these feelings for too long. Instead, Brander embraces her flaws and uses her go-getter personality to inspire those around her.
“Balancing everything is not always perfect. It’s not always 100 per cent great,” Brandner confides. As a mum and a life coach, she takes care of her personal development and well-being so she can be in a centred headspace when she shows up for her clients. “At the end of the day, I have to ask ‘‘What’s important right now? What’s aligned with my values? Have I taken care of myself yet? Do I need rest?’ So it’s like constantly stopping to check yourself”.
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At this point in her life, Brandner proudly shares that she has finally defined her version of success. She shares that the path she chose to tread is unlike anything that society dictated. “I think, growing up, it can be so easy to follow the standards set by the people around you. And you come to a point where you have done everything, but you’re still not happy,” she discloses.
“Through trial and error, I realised that success is something that means different for everyone and I learned that I can create my definitions of it based on what is aligned with my values and what’s important for me—even if it means doing something silly and what you do isn’t the coolest thing. Just embracing that this is you is more than enough,” she adds.
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