The mother of four and head of Boston Consulting Group Malaysia on cherishing family time and balancing the demands of being an empowering leader in the workplace
Nurlin Mohd Salleh sometimes wonders what her life would have been like as a stay-at-home mum. As a young mother, she envisioned reaching a certain point in her career and taking a break from the corporate world to focus on family life.
“I also thought, 'Is that truly the best of what I could be as an individual? If I were a full-time mum, would I have been a grumpier mum who is always on her kids’ backs?”, she muses. “Perhaps it’s better that I took up different roles and ambitions. Right now, I love the fact that I have these different parts of my life, that it’s not fully about work, that I’m fulfilled with work as well as family, friends and other activities. Achieving that balance is important, not just rushing to achieve one aspect of it.”
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Nurlin joined global management consulting firm Boston Consulting Group (BCG) 16 years ago, having worked as a market planner at Procter & Gamble in the UK prior to that. Today, she is managing director and partner at the firm, leading its public sector practice within Malaysia and working closely with government officials on initiatives and policies relating to economic development, education and more. To top it all off, she's also the mother of four beautiful kids, aged 2, 6, 4 and 8.
Nurlin shares why she’s passionate about seeing more women thrive at BCG and why finding the ideal balance is still a learning process for her 16 years in.
What's a typical day like for you?
My day starts at 6am. I get up and make sure the kids have everything ready for school. More often than not, I’ll have a little extra snooze after they go off to school. Then I get up and the day starts at 9am or 9.30am with phone calls and meetings throughout. I’ll typically have two or three projects happening at the same time, as well as a couple of different client conversations happening and a number of internal meetings throughout the day.
I try to be back home by around 5pm or 6pm so I can spend time with the kids, or go running. I get the kids to bed at about 7pm, have dinner with my husband and then usually I’ll do more meetings from 9pm to about 11pm before I go to bed. So it’s a combination of kids, work, exercise, kids again, and then more work before bedtime.