Photo: W Singapore
Cover Photo: W Singapore

This Father's Day, we share the touching story of how Chef Solanki Ashok Kumar joined his father, the head Indian chef of Grand Hyatt Singapore, in the hotel’s kitchen as a complete rookie to become the lead Indian chef at W Singapore—Sentosa Cove today

How I’m Making It is a weekly series in which Tatler speaks to influential individuals about their unique journeys and what keeps them going.


12 years ago, Chef Solanki Ashok Kumar joined his father, the head Indian chef of the Grand Hyatt Singapore, in the hotel’s kitchen as a complete rookie. Today, Ashok has managed to follow in his father's footsteps to become a chef in his own right at the W Hotel Singapore, where he is leading and training teams while pursuing his art for North and South Indian dishes. His favourite dish to make is a fish curry that has reportedly never been criticised. 

However, funnily enough, Chef Kumar’s interest in becoming a chef did not exactly begin with his father. Rather, it was inspired by a stint he had while assisting at banquets.

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“Growing up, I was always interested in food and my parents used to teach me how to cook. I certainly knew that I wanted to cook in the future,” said Ashok to Tatler Singapore hurriedly over the phone. Ashok was preparing for a big event and had only minutes to speak with us before he had to get back to work.

However, when he was 16, Ashok was given the opportunity to work part-time as a banquet server and that was what changed everything. 

“I got to see all these beautiful plates being put together by the kitchen team. This was what really inspired me to want to one day be able to create my own dishes,” he said.

“So after I finished my National Service, I told my dad that I wanted to try to be a chef. That’s when my dad decided to give me a chance and he roped me into the kitchen of the Grand Hyatt Singapore,” Ashok said. At that point, Ashok’s father, the famed chef Kishore Solanki, was the head Indian chef at the luxury hotel—a position he has held there for the last 59 years.

It was a massive role, especially for a rookie who had never been to culinary school. “Everyone had their eyes on me because of my dad and wanted to see how I was performing. It was a huge responsibility to hold his name up high and I knew I couldn’t afford to make mistakes,” Ashok said. 

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However, despite his connections with one of Singapore’s most widely-regarded Indian chefs, Ashok did not get it easy. “The first thing my dad had me do in the kitchen was to peel and cut 10 kilograms of onions,” he said with a laugh. “In the kitchen, it’s so important to have these basic skills. You don’t even get to touch a pan until you learn your knife skills, hygiene and all the basics.”

It was only after he mastered the basics that his father began allowing him to learn smaller dishes. “You start by learning how to make things like mashed potatoes or gravy,” he said.

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Photo: W Singapore
Above Photo: W Singapore

After about a year of working part-time with his father at the Grand Hyatt, Ashok made the decision to commit to the industry full-time and he left the hotel to go to the Rang Mahal, one of Singapore’s most famed Indian establishments. 

We asked if it things became easier once he was able to spread his wings and step out of his father's shadow.

“Gosh, no,” he exclaimed. “My dad is so well-known in the industry that wherever I go, someone knows my dad and so I always need to be at my best.”

However, clearly, this is not a problem for Ashok, who comes across as humble and eager to learn. “I had a goal to become an Indian chef and I was working towards it. Everything in my life was leading me there,” he said. 

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Ashok worked as a cook at the Rang Mahal for a year before he moved on to the Conrad Hotel, the Holiday Inn, The Westin Singapore, Swisshotel Singapore and the Le Meridian. All this time, he kept acquiring more knowledge and skills as he worked his way up the ladder.

“You know, I don’t have any regrets about not going to culinary school but looking back, maybe that would have helped. Just the curriculum, the skills that students are taught. But I decided to dedicate that time I would have spent in school to getting actual working experience in various kitchens and I think that’s what was really important,” Ashok shared candidly.

He added that his father also never went to culinary school. “I’m really fortunate that my dad is a chef and that I get to learn from him. So I learn what I can from him and the people I work with,” he said. 

Ashok continued by saying that on the side, he was trying to diversify by learning how to handle the admin side of being a chef.

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Today, Ashok is a father himself with two young girls to whom he is eager to pass on his skills. But he is aware that times are changing. 

“I have been teaching my girls simple dishes that my grandma used to teach me when I was their age. Things like khichdi, which is like lentils and rice, and simple things like that,” he said. “My eldest loves it but my younger one is still playing around,” he shared with a smile.

“I would love my kids to go into the food industry as well but I don’t want to force them. [But] I can’t expect them to want the same things I do.”

When asked how he will be spending Father’s Day, Ashok was quick to say that he would be spending it at work. “I’m working on Father’s Day so on Monday I plan to take my girls out probably to a water park or maybe Sentosa.”

“At the end of the day, I just want to be a good father to my girls so that I can give them a much brighter future,” he said firmly.

With his busy work schedule, family and kids, here’s how chef Ashok gets it all done in his own words. 

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Photo: W Singapore
Above Photo: W Singapore

What is a typical morning like for you?

Ashok Kumar (AK): I usually wake up and give my kids a hug. My kids love to sleep with me so it’s a great way to wake up. Then, I get up and get started on breakfast.

What do you usually have for breakfast?

AK: I usually try to eat healthily so I will have fruits or oats and brown bread.

What does a standard work day look like for you?

AK: I arrive at work between 9 am to 11 am depending on if we have events or not. The first thing I do is check my schedule to see what we have lined up for the day. If I am in early and we don’t have events, I will help out with breakfast at the hotel and then I will prepare some of the à la carte dishes throughout the day till 11 pm. I like to break down my day so that it is more manageable.

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What time do you usually have lunch? What do you usually have for lunch?

AK: Lunch is really unpredictable. Sometimes if I’m too busy, I just skip it altogether. Otherwise, I’ll have it from around 3 pm to 4 pm and I’ll go for a salad with grilled chicken or quinoa. I don’t always have vegetarian meals but I lean more towards that where I can.

Free time: overrated or underrated?

AK: Underrated. 

How do you achieve a work-life balance? How do you set boundaries?

AK: By prioritising things. For example, if my kids need me at an important event, I will be there. I will prioritise them over my work.

If there’s an event at work, I will put my focus there. Ultimately I have had that conversation with my wife. She knows what my job is like and she accepts that. So we work as a team. Family life is very important to me so I do make a great effort to create balance. 

How do you chase your dreams?

AK: With a clear vision. I always have a clear vision of what I want to achieve in my head and then I break that down into smaller, short-term goals and work towards achieving them. Slowly I will reach my goals. 

Risks: should you take them? Why or why not?

AK: I mean, when you want to achieve something, you need to take a risk don’t you?

How do you deal with your shortcomings?

AK: I learn and improve myself. I also don’t hide what I’m not good at or try to avoid it. I think when you put your shortcomings out in the open, you have a better chance to learn.

What is the best piece of advice that you have ever gotten?

AK: My father always taught me to respect my food and the people around me. When you respect your food, you put your heart into it and it will always be good and the best it can be. When you respect the people around you, they will respect you back and will support you.

What is an idea/thought that you heard recently, that you thought was interesting?

AK: That robots are now making omelettes and that it’s cool that we are living in a time where we can grow with culinary technology. 

How do you unplug?

AK: I avoid my phone when I’m not at work and really dedicate my time and focus to my kids and family.

How do you stay grounded? 

AK: It’s honestly very easy. When you are capable of doing something, you automatically are not overly proud of it. And you shouldn’t be overly proud you know? I could be doing great today but tomorrow I may not. It’s always changing. 

How do you manage stress?

AK: Well being a chef is super stressful and it’s not easy. I simply try to stay as calm as possible and I write things down so I can focus on them one by one and not have to juggle too many things at once.

How do you stay motivated?

AK: I’m motivated to do what I do every time I see my kids.

Do you have moments of doubt and how do you overcome them?

AK: Yes of course. I try to look at things from a different perspective and see if I can learn more to help me overcome whatever I’m facing. 

What would you consider your greatest accomplishment to date?

AK: Earning the respect of my teammates and colleagues. 

What is the last thing you do before you go to bed?

AK: I hug my kids and just give them so much love. If they are awake when I get home, they will run to me and give me the biggest hugs. If not, I will go and hug them. 

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