RIO DE JANEIRO, BRAZIL - AUGUST 20:  Neymar of Brazil celebrates with his son at the Olympic Men's Final Football match between Brazil and Germany at Maracana Stadium on August 20, 2016 in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.  (Photo by Stuart Franklin - FIFA/FIFA via Getty Images)(Photo: Getty Images)
Cover 8 月 8 日父親節即將到來,讀者們想好今年該如何慶祝了嗎?(Photo: Getty Images)
RIO DE JANEIRO, BRAZIL - AUGUST 20:  Neymar of Brazil celebrates with his son at the Olympic Men's Final Football match between Brazil and Germany at Maracana Stadium on August 20, 2016 in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.  (Photo by Stuart Franklin - FIFA/FIFA via Getty Images)(Photo: Getty Images)

8 月 8 日父親節即將到來,讀者們想好今年該如何慶祝了嗎?

父親節(Father's Day)俗稱「88 節」,意味著就在 8 月 8 日。此節日誕生的用意在於體恤父親平時的辛勞、感謝他對家庭成員的付出,許多人會在這天送禮聊表對付新的心意,但不論是吃大餐、享用蛋糕,還是精心準備一份禮物,每一種慶祝方式都是對父親表達感恩之情。

然而說來有趣,台灣雖然 8 月 8 日是父親節,但其實世界各地訂定的日期有所不同,據了解,近一百個國家地區共有 23 個父親節,除了有各式各樣的起源外,過節意義也不太一樣,而其中又有哪些令人意想不到的故事?全球父親節文化大不相同,一篇帶你好好地認識一番。

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1. 父親節的起源?

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TURIN, ITALY - MAY 19: Cristiano Ronaldo of Juventus lines up with his son Cristiano Jr before the Serie A match between Juventus and Atalanta BC at Allianz Stadium on May 19, 2019 in Turin, Italy. (Photo by Chris Brunskill/Fantasista/Getty Images)(Photo: Getty Images)
Above Cristiano Ronaldo of Juventus lines up with his son Cristiano Jr .(Photo: Getty Images)
TURIN, ITALY - MAY 19: Cristiano Ronaldo of Juventus lines up with his son Cristiano Jr before the Serie A match between Juventus and Atalanta BC at Allianz Stadium on May 19, 2019 in Turin, Italy. (Photo by Chris Brunskill/Fantasista/Getty Images)(Photo: Getty Images)

事實上,父親節起源於美國,回溯至 1909 年,當時美國華盛頓州的杜德夫人的父親威廉史馬特辭世,而這對她可是一大打擊。由於母親在生下她時便離世,因此史馬特父兼母職、在農場獨自將 6 位兒女拉拔長大,對於杜德夫人而言,爸爸無疑是相當偉大的存在。

杜德夫人某次參加完教會的母親節禮拜後,不禁納悶怎麼沒有感恩父親的節日?她認為無私奉獻大愛精神、細心照料兒女的爸爸們,同樣值得受到人尊重,所以在教會牧師的鼓勵下,杜德夫人主動發起運動,拜訪各方有權人士、表達自己的見解,最後終於獲得州長認可、順利於 1910 年 6 月 19 日設立史上第一個父親節。

感人的是,不僅華盛頓州斯波坎市開始在每年慶祝父親節,1924 年美國總統卡爾文柯立芝首度表明支持父親節變為全國的節日,直到 1972 年,總統理查尼克森決定把每年 6 月的第 3 個星期日設為美國父親節,希望以此紀念每位辛苦的爸爸。

2. 父親節代表的花是?

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PARIS, FRANCE - SEPTEMBER 30: (L-R) Cruz Beckham, Harper Beckham, David Beckham, Victoria Beckham, Romeo Beckham,  Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz Beckham attends the Victoria Beckham Spring/summer 2023 Runway show in Val-de-Grace on September 30, 2022 in Paris, France. (Photo by Darren Gerrish/WireImage for Victoria Beckham )(Photo: Getty Images)
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PARIS, FRANCE - SEPTEMBER 30: (L-R) Cruz Beckham, Harper Beckham, David Beckham, Victoria Beckham, Romeo Beckham,  Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz Beckham attends the Victoria Beckham Spring/summer 2023 Runway show in Val-de-Grace on September 30, 2022 in Paris, France. (Photo by Darren Gerrish/WireImage for Victoria Beckham )(Photo: Getty Images)

依照傳統來說,母親節的代表花種是康乃馨,那麼父親節表達謝意的花會是什麼呢?雖然父親節比較沒有統一規定性的種類,但相對來說反倒多元化許多,除了杜德夫人當年使用白玫瑰象徵父親的真誠與智慧外,往後各地也依照自身的風土民情,發展出不一樣的送花文化。例如生性強健的石斛蘭是香港普遍的愛用種類,而符合夏天暖陽氛圍的向日葵則是日本人的最愛,其他還有像是花期較長的火鶴,宛如父親勇敢堅毅的形象也是熱門選擇

3. 台灣父親節為什麼是「88」?

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MIAMI, FLORIDA - MAY 06: Elon Musk, South African entrepreneur, business magnate and investor, CEO of SpaceX and Tesla Inc and Twitter, guest of Red Bull Racing and Christian Horner seen during Qualifying ahead of the F1 Grand Prix of Miami at Miami International Autodrome on May 06, 2023 in Miami, Florida. (Photo by Cristiano Barni ATPImages/Getty Images)(Photo: Getty Images)

台灣父親節就是取自「爸爸」的諧音,不過背後故事其實別具意義。1931 年起爆發了抗日戰爭,直到 1945 年才終於劃下句點,然而為了頌揚那些多年在戰場上為國家拼命、甚至奉獻生命的英勇父親們,地方人士提倡應該發起相關紀念活動,於是經過政府獲准,訂定每年 8 月 8 日為此節日。

4. 各國的慶祝方式

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RIO DE JANEIRO, BRAZIL - AUGUST 20:  Neymar of Brazil celebrates with his son at the Olympic Men's Final Football match between Brazil and Germany at Maracana Stadium on August 20, 2016 in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.  (Photo by Stuart Franklin - FIFA/FIFA via Getty Images)(Photo: Getty Images)
Above Neymar of Brazil celebrates with his son.(Photo: Getty Images)
RIO DE JANEIRO, BRAZIL - AUGUST 20:  Neymar of Brazil celebrates with his son at the Olympic Men's Final Football match between Brazil and Germany at Maracana Stadium on August 20, 2016 in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.  (Photo by Stuart Franklin - FIFA/FIFA via Getty Images)(Photo: Getty Images)

說到父親節的慶祝方式,按照台灣人的習慣,不外乎是吃大餐、送鮮花、買禮物(送禮老班底刮鬍刀、領帶、皮夾),想要擺脫老梗來點新把戲?不妨參考其他國家的做法:

  • 日本——為了對摯愛的父親表達最真摯的祝福,家中孩子通常會親手寫一封感謝信,並且大聲朗誦出來,藉由難得的節日做出溫暖舉動。如果年紀還小,有些家庭的小孩還會和父親一起泡澡,幫爸爸按摩、搓背。
  • 泰國——泰國父親節為 12 月 5 日,是全球最晚慶祝的國家。因應宗教的信仰,大家會穿著黃色衣服(代表皇室的顏色)前往寺廟祈福,值得一提的是,這天不僅是感謝父親的日子,也是泰國普密蓬阿杜德國王的生日,意義相當重大。
  • 德國——對於德國人來說,毫無疑問的啤酒是他們最重要的文化之一,雖然已經有個「慕尼黑啤酒節」,但嗜酒的德國人就連父親節都想要買醉到天明。這天的習俗是父親們會帶著桶裝的啤酒上街,隨興暢飲且遇見任何人都會邀他一同喝酒,簡直是許多人夢寐以求的生活!

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Irene Chen
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