Style maven and homemaker, Kai Lim, shares with us the joys of celebrating life with friends and family over a good meal
“Be it for work or dear friends, entertaining at home is more special and personal because you are welcoming them to your space which is usually reserved for family,” says entrepreneur and mother of three, Kai Lim. “I love sharing stories and laughs with our guests!”
Along with her husband, Bryan, VP for Business Development of Suyen Corp, she enjoys having people over. In the recent years, Lim has taken a step back to really relish quality time with her loved ones. “I looked back at our fast-paced life and realised my children are only young for such a short period of time. My husband already has a very busy schedule so I try to be present for my kids as much as I can.”
Lim agrees with the old adage “home is where the heart is”. For her, it’s a space of rest and warmth. “Your home is your safe and sacred space. Each corner should spark joy or a sentimental emotion.” Therefore, she takes her entertaining very seriously, because it’s an intimate peek in to her private life.
In the past, she used to have a more uptight and curated approach; today, she feels that she is much more relaxed and no longer stresses when things don’t go as planned. “A big part of entertaining is the energy you share with your guests. If you’re frazzled your guests will feel it.”
For her, everything starts with who has been invited. “It all depends on who you are hosting,” she explains. “It’s important to set a mood and lighting matters. We have different light settings at home. A darker moodier setting for friends and a brighter staging for business formal.”