Cover Kris Jenner with daughters Khloé Kardashian, Kourtney Kardashian, Kim Kardashian, Kendall Jenner and Kylie Jenner (Photo: Kris Jenner/Instagram)
Kris Jenner with daughters Khloé Kardashian, Kourtney Kardashian, Kim Kardashian, Kendall Jenner and Kylie Jenner (Photo: Kris Jenner/Instagram)
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We take a look at some of the most famous maternal figures, who went beyond traditional roles and embodied strength, compassion and wisdom to lead the lives of this generation
Motherhood is not a one-size-fits-all formula. It is a journey as unique as it is universal. Becoming a mother epitomises comfort, nurture and unconditional love that transcends biological ties. It stands true in real life as well as in popular culture, with the youth today even giving “mother” another meaning that goes beyond the traditional sense.
Among the current generation, “mother” has become the ultimate accolade that anyone, regardless of gender or sexual identity, can receive. While the term has varied origins that date back to the queer community in 1720s London, it can be agreed that “mother” today is mainly applied to a person with a certain pop cultural cachet and demonstrable queer appeal.
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The enormous global popularity of RuPaul’s Drag Race has helped to popularise the term. But before the reality TV show’s boom, the world had Lady Gaga. Since the musician and actress launched her career in 2008, she has been regarded as “Mother Monster”. Rupaul and Lady Gaga were embraced by many LGBTQ+ members and allies as symbols of strength, support, and comfort— all roles fulfilled by a traditional mother.
In today’s pop culture, plenty of other maternal figures have emerged that made us go “that’s mother” as they demonstrated their maternal instincts through our screens with authenticity and resilience. Meet seven iconic mothers, both real and fictional, who have shaped us through our screens.
Oprah Winfrey
“Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother.” - Oprah Winfrey, host and producer
Beyond her unparalleled success as a media mogul and philanthropist, Oprah Winfrey embodies the essence of motherly guidance and wisdom. Oprah earned the title “America’s Mom” due to her nurturing presence and innate ability to connect with others, cementing her legacy as a beloved mother figure. Her iconic talk show has allowed her to touch the lives of millions, offering comfort, advice and inspiration to people from all walks of life.
Moira Rose
“You have the opportunity to climb out of the quicksand that was your past.” - fictional character Moira Rose
Behind her lavish wardrobe and larger-than-life persona in the award-winning series Schitt’s Creek, Moira Rose’s love for her children and her strong devotion to her family make her a beloved and iconic maternal figure. Despite starting as a parent seemingly with “no interest in what’s going on”, Moira Rose grew as a mother, along with her family, throughout the show’s six seasons. Catherine O’Hara’s portrayal of Moira Rose has earned her critical acclaim and a devoted fan following, particularly over her unhinged life advice.
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RuPaul
“I feel like you’re being sabotaged by your inner saboteur.” - RuPaul, drag queen and TV personality
RuPaul Andre Charles, better known as RuPaul, released the single Call Me Mother in 2017 and everyone seemingly did. As the magnetic host of the drag show RuPaul’s Drag Race, RuPaul has become a phenomenal maternal figure among the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. Inspiring people to embrace their true selves and live authentically, RuPaul earned the title of “Mama Ru” among drag race fans.
Nani Pelekai
Above Nani and Lilo Pelekai (Photo: IMDB/Lilo and Stitch)
Nani and Lilo Pelekai (Photo: IMDB/Lilo and Stitch)
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“Sometimes you try your hardest, but things don’t work out the way you want them to.” - fictional character Nani Pelekai
Nani Pelekai is the older sister and legal guardian of Lilo in the animated film Lilo & Stitch. After the death of their parents, Nani took on the responsibility of caring for Lilo despite her young age. She provided love, guidance and support as they navigated life and its intricacies in Hawai’i.
Her character, which exemplifies maternal qualities such as sacrifice, resilience and unconditional love, has inspired sisters worldwide who step in as parents to their siblings.
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Ellen Ripley
Above Ellen Ripley and Newt from the sci-fi movie ‘Aliens’ (Photo: IMDB)
Ellen Ripley and Newt from the sci-fi movie ‘Aliens’ (Photo: IMDB)
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“Get away from her, you b****!” - Ellen Ripley
There is no other quote in the Alien franchise as mothering as this line uttered by Sigourney Weaver’s Ellen Ripley. As the sole survivor of multiple encounters with the deadly Xenomorphs, Ripley’s maternal instincts kick into overdrive when she meets a young girl named Newt. By risking her own life to protect Newt from harm, Ripley becomes Newt’s substitute mother, embodying strength, courage and maternal instinct.
Kris Jenner
“As a momager, you have to overlook bad things.” - Kris Jenner, TV personality, socialite and businesswoman
As the matriarch of the KarJenner family, Kris Jenner has redefined what it means to be a mother in the world of entertainment. As a “momager” or a mom and a manager of her children, Jenner has set aside personal feelings and focuses on what’s best for her children’s careers. Her business savvy, protective instincts and unyielding devotion to her family make her a formidable maternal figure in the entertainment industry.
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Miss Honey
Above Miss Honey and Matilda, played respectively by Embeth Davidtz and Mara Wilson in the 1996 film adaptation (Photo: IMDB)
Miss Honey and Matilda, played respectively by Embeth Davidtz and Mara Wilson in the 1996 film adaptation (Photo: IMDB)
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“There is little point in teaching anything backwards. The whole object of life, Headmistress, is to go forward.” - Miss Honey
In Roald Dahl’s beloved children’s book Matilda, the character of Miss Honey is a nurturing and compassionate maternal figure to the titular character, Matilda. The gifted child is forced to put up with her crude and distant father. As the school teacher, Miss Honey offers Matilda a sense of belonging, kindness and encouragement to empower her to embrace her unique gifts.
Syrah is Tatler Philippines’ Power & Purpose editor, where she spotlights extraordinary journeys shaping the Philippines and Asia. She covers business, innovation, impact, and culture—chasing the people, ideas and forces shaping how we live and think today.
