A meal can very easily be ruined with bad ambience, service, and surroundings (Photo: iStock)
Cover A meal can very easily be ruined with bad ambience, service, and surroundings (Photo: iStock)

Three insiders in the dining community share what turns them off about a restaurant

While it is a major factor, food is not the only component contributing to your overall dining experience. The experience of going to a restaurant starts from the moment you scout for your next dining destination. From reviews and websites to the first impression from the street or entrance, these help you decide whether you should make a reservation or take your chances elsewhere. Then there are the ambiance, service, cleanliness, the list goes on—they can either elevate or tarnish your experience.

Tatler Dining speaks to three individuals in the industry—food writer Lim Renyi, recipe developer and food writer Loh Yi Jun, and restaurateur and bar owner Hsiao Tung Wei—to find out their red flags when dining out.

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1. Unappetising surroundings

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Streets lined with garbage (Photo: Aa Dil/Pexels)
Above Streets lined with garbage (Photo: Aa Dil/Pexels)

When you see trash being taken out through the front door and flung onto the sidewalk, run. Not only does this violate health codes and sanitary standards, it's a major turn-off.

The stench, grime, and rotting food do not make for a warm welcome to a restaurant, especially since it signifies the presence of rodents and flies. This is a big no-no for Loh. "With trash around the entrance, you'll also have cockroaches scuttling around the premises," he says. For certain, it's not a sight you'd want to see when you're putting food in your mouth.

Loh adds: "I love peeking into restaurant kitchens whenever I can because get a certain joy from witnessing a chaotic kitchen in the full swing of service. But if there are weeks-old grease stains on stovetops and sauce bottles, dust collecting on forgotten bags of flour, or signs of furry, mossy mould on the walls, I’ll see myself out quicker than you can say 'Ewww'."

Lim, who was a panellist for Tatler Dining Awards 2023, believes that the condition of the toilet is a good indicator of the overall hygiene level of the restaurant. "There’s a rule I once read that stated ‘If they can’t keep the bathroom clean, imagine the state of the kitchen’. I think of it every time I visit the ladies’ loos in a restaurant," she notes.

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Loh Yi Jun was named as one of Tatler's Asia's Most Influential honourees in 2022 (Photo: Emran Shaqif)
Above Loh Yi Jun was one of Tatler's Asia's Most Influential honourees in 2022 (Photo: Emran Shaqif)
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Lim Renyi at the Tatler Dining Awards 2023, where she attended as a member of our panelists (Photo: Daniel Adams)
Above Lim Renyi at the Tatler Dining Awards 2023 (Photo: Daniel Adams)

2. Responses to feedback

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Service and staff attitudes can make or break a restaurant (Photo: Jessie McCall/Unsplash)
Above Service and staff attitudes can make or break a restaurant (Photo: Jessie McCall/Unsplash)

A good restaurant team should always be welcoming and receptive to feedback from customers. "Whether it is feedback on food or service, all restaurants should take them constructively and try to understand them," says Hsiao. "Regardless of whether the chef come out and have a chat with the customers, a big red flag is when they completely ignore feedback, or worse, argue back. Customers are definitely not always right, but being able to communicate well is a key part of the restaurant business."

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Hsiao Tung Wei is the owner of popular wine bar Unwined at APW Bangsar (Photo: Imran Sulaiman)
Above Hsiao Tung Wei is the owner of wine bar Unwined at APW Bangsar (Photo: Emran Shaqif)

3. Dated interiors

In the social media age, interior design has become an integral part of the dining out experience. Nice aesthetics aside, a thoughtfully designed interior goes a long way in making the diner feel comfortable.

But going overboard with the design is not desirable either. "Chandeliers, chrome plating on all fixtures, nausea-inducing carpets, brocade wallpaper...," laments Lim when describing interiors that make her think twice about a repeat visit.

4. It's a restaurant, not a club

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Loud music is a turn-off at restaurants (Photo: Marcela Laskoski/Unsplash)
Above Loud music is a turn-off at restaurants (Photo: Marcela Laskoski/Unsplash)

As you're walking up to a restaurant and you can clearly hear the bass pumping from a distance away, you might want to think twice about stepping in. Having music blasting around you is not a comfortable way to dine and it's something that Lim generally avoids. "I didn't come here to have my eardrums perforated while I’m eating," remarks Lim.

After all, you're in a restaurant, not a club.

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