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JLo珍妮佛羅培茲(Jennifer Lopez)在洛杉磯道奇隊基金會藍鑽聯歡晚會上,歡迎14歲女兒艾米(Emme)上台與她合唱,在介紹女兒時,JLo珍妮佛羅培茲使用的代名詞是”They”,而不是他He或她She,They的意思除了「他們」,新用法還可解釋為非二元性別的代名詞。

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JLo珍妮佛羅培茲(Jennifer Lopez)上週在洛杉磯道奇隊基金會藍鑽聯歡晚會上,邀請14歲女兒艾米(Emme Maribel Muñiz)一同演出,介紹女兒上台時,JLo珍妮佛羅培茲以中性的“They“(暫譯為它),取代He或She作為艾米的代名詞,引起粉絲們一陣歡呼。

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MIAMI, FLORIDA - FEBRUARY 02: (L-R) Emme Maribel Muñiz and Jennifer Lopez perform onstage during the Pepsi Super Bowl LIV Halftime Show at Hard Rock Stadium on February 02, 2020 in Miami, Florida. (Photo by Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic)
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MIAMI, FLORIDA - FEBRUARY 02: (L-R) Emme Maribel Muñiz and Jennifer Lopez perform onstage during the Pepsi Super Bowl LIV Halftime Show at Hard Rock Stadium on February 02, 2020 in Miami, Florida. (Photo by Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic)
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「它是我最愛的合唱夥伴」

JLo珍妮佛羅培茲說:「上次我們一起演出也是同樣在這樣大的舞台,自那之後我總是邀請它(They)和我合唱,但它(They)都不願意,所以今晚意義重大。」

JLo珍妮佛羅培茲形容女兒是她「最愛的合唱搭檔」,並且表示:「它非常非常忙,很難敲時間,而且費用高昂,它一出門就會花很多錢,但它值得每一分錢,因為它永遠都是我最愛的合唱夥伴。」

許多粉絲也在網路上表示:「哇,JLo珍妮佛羅培茲很尊重非二元性別的代名詞。」「最棒的父母會愛孩子並且支持孩子,支持JLo和Emme!

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They是最新非二元性別單數代名詞

或許有些人會覺得,They不是指第三人稱複數的代稱「他們」嗎?居然可以作為LGBTQ+中的非二元性別代名詞?

事實上,They在2018年就被CNN報導,當LGBTQ+成員中屬非二元性別(Non-binary gender)、非常規性別(gender non-conforming)、性別酷兒(genderqueer)等,他們可能會更希望你用「They」取代「He」或「She」來稱呼他們。

2019年9月17日,韋伯字典(Webster's Dictionary,或稱韋氏字典)在推特上發表貼文表示:「非二元性別代名詞They已經新增到字典中。

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They的新用法

事實上,英文中的They原本就能夠用來指尚未確定性別的單數第三人,例如,韋伯字典中的例句:“The student, whose name has not been released, will be disciplined according to district policies, Murphy said.  They  also face charges from outside law enforcement, she said.”(這個名字尚未曝光的學生,會依法懲治, 墨非說。它也會面臨外部法律的制裁。)

在此時的They(暫譯為它),指的就是這名性別和名字都還未曝光的學生,指的是單一人,並不是複數的他們。

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"They"可用來指單一個人嗎?

韋伯字典在講述they, their, them,themselve的用法中也提到:英文中欠缺泛指各種性別的第三人稱代名詞,像是所有人(Eeveryone)、任何人(Anyone)、某人(Someone),而文學家早已使用複數的第三人稱代名詞來補足這個缺失,像是莎士比亞寫過「and every one to rest  themselves  betake.」,珍奧斯汀(Jane Austen)也寫過:「I  would have everybody marry if they can do it properly.」
 
韋伯字典認為,they, their, them,themselves用來指稱不定性別和不定數量的代名詞早在許多演講和寫作中已經被確立了,即使是在文學和正式語境中也是如此。並且表示,近年來,這些代詞也已被非二元性別認同的個人所採用。

其實早有不少LGBTQ+族群會在自己的推特註明:「They/Them/Their」,在這種情況下,就請尊重他們的性別認同,以「They/Them/Their」等來稱呼他們,這樣的做法可以讓自我認同在傳統兩元性別以外的人,也可以選擇自己感到舒服的稱謂。

 

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