Cover Deborah Henry, Tehmina Kaoosji and Marion Caunter talk strength and resilience at Tiffany & Co. HardWear Studio

Marion Caunter, Deborah Henry and Tehmina Kaoosji joined us at Tiffany & Co. to share their individual paths to strength and resilience

What happens when you bring together three strong women, Tiffany & Co. HardWear and a room full of women? One afternoon, we filled the Tiffany & Co. boutique in Pavilion Kuala Lumpur with friends of Tatler and Tiffany & Co., who gathered to listen to Marion Caunter, Deborah Henry and Tehmina Kaoosji in conversation. The topic: Strength and resilience.

Our panellists for the day have each cut a broad swath in their own distinctive ways. Tatler Most Influential alumnus Marion Caunter is, of course, a stalwart of the Malaysian entertainment industry, since her early days hosting a number of popular TV shows. She’s also a fashion icon, beloved on social media for her impeccable hair, and the entrepreneurial force behind Mare by Marion Caunter.

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Gen.T Tehmina Kaoosji is one of Malaysia’s most thoughtful and energetic advocates for the stories that matter. Her career as a journalist and communications consultant has taken her from newsrooms to boardrooms, where she consistently champions the rights of girls and women.

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Photo 1 of 4 Deborah Henry, Tehmina Kaoosji and Marion Caunter joined Tatler Malaysia managing editor Emma Chong for an inspiring panel discussion
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And Deborah Henry—Tatler Most Influential, former Miss Universe Malaysia, humanitarian, and founder of The Fugee School—whose journey from the pageant stage to the classroom is a testament to what it truly means to use her voice and the platform for purpose.

We spoke to the three women about what it takes to build strength and resilience, from career pivots to the big personal life choices we’re all faced with.

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The leap into entrepreneurship is a daunting one for anyone, and though Marion Caunter may seem the very picture of poise, launching her own brands into the market was no easy feat. For Caunter, it all came down to self-belief, a willingness to back herself—and a healthy spirit of daring. “Why not?” she said, laughing. It’s a question to take the fear and intimidation out of any big decision, and one that has propelled her in her journey.

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For Tehmina Kaoosji, strength looks like holding firm to your principles, even when it means saying no to an opportunity that looks great on paper. Kaoosji shared an anecdote from her professional past when she was asked to step back and allow a male colleague to take credit for her own work, in the name of being accommodating, a team player. But she knew that would set a dangerous precedent, and that the longterm damage to her career and reputation would be greater than the discomfort of saying no in the present. The lesson: Clarity comes when you make choices that are aligned with your values and self-belief.

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Strength and resilience take multiple forms, and for Deborah Henry, hers has been shaped by purpose. Stepping away from the spotlight of pageantry to build The Fugee School wasn't a retreat from influence, but a redirection of it. Resilience often means staying the course on something that matters.

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Across all three women, a common thread emerged: strength isn’t a single grand gesture, but a series of quiet, deliberate choices—to back yourself, to hold your line, to keep showing up for what you believe in. It’s a sentiment echoed in Tiffany & Co. HardWear, with its bold, interlocking links, designed as an emblem of unity and fortitude—a reminder that true strength is rarely forged alone, but built link by link, story by story, and woman by woman.

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