Cover Zenaida “Nedy” Rustia Tantoco (Photo: Courtesy of the Tantoco family)

The death of Zenaida “Nedy” Tantoco on February 8, 2024, left a void not only in the field of luxury retail, where she reigned supreme for decades, but in other circles where she wielded a permeating influence

In social circles, her commanding presence was always a must-invite; art circles felt privileged to benefit from her unyielding support; the world of philanthropy counted her as one of their most generous souls. And yet, if by some fluke of the universe, you did not know how she looked like, it would have been difficult for you to guess that this unassuming woman who moves about with feminine grace, a demure smile and a soft low voice was actually a repository of power.

Nedy was born to the role. The eldest daughter of Glecy Rustia and Bienvenido Tantoco, Sr, who built the retail empire Rustan’s Commercial Corporation, learned from the best mentors the meaning of hard work and industry. She started her lessons from the time she was in grade school at the Assumption Convent. After school, she went straight to her parents’ growing department store nearby in San Marcelino and helped around doing odd jobs from entertaining the shoppers to helping at the cashier.

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Above Nedy, Menchu, Marilou, Marilen, Bienvenido Snr, Glecy, Maritess (Photo: Courtesy of the Tantoco family)

Her mother was a great influence. It was clear to see both the strength and the business foresight of Glecy in Nedy. The daughter continued the relationships her mother built with global luxury brands, cementing these as long-lasting partnerships. As such, Glecy propelled the Rustan’s brand into its position of leadership in luxury retail in the Philippines.

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Above (BACK ROW) Crickette and Donnie Tantoco, Roberto Tantoco, Maritess T Enriquez, MJ Tantoco, Sofie Pineda, Marilou T Pineda, Marilen Tantoco, Nena and Rico Tantoco, Nedy Tantoco, Nikki Huang, Anton T Huang, Chris Tantoco, Menchu T Lopez; (FRONT ROW) Taty Lopez, Zach Tantoco, Kameron Huang, Alana Tantoco, Kalden Reyes, Mackenzie Huang, Bella Tantoco, Nicola Lopez, Isabelle Huang (Photo: Wig Tysmans)

She shared this passion outside the business world. For years she supported the Philippine Philharmonic Orchestra, making sure all their needs─from the condition of their instruments to their continued training─were taken care of. She threw her support behind opera, promoting this art form in the country by bringing in world-class performances on the local stage. And she led the Philippine Italian Association as its chairman to keep the ties between the two countries closer still.

Such importance spread through all her roles, even in her personal life. She was the Ate (eldest sister) who called the shots, the doting mum but also the disciplinarian, and the role model to her grandchildren, nieces and nephews. She was the pillar of strength.

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Above Zenaida “Nedy” Rustia Tantoco (Artwork: By Pete Rich)

What happens now when a pillar of strength disappears? Nedy’s sudden death was a shock that reverberated from local circles and out to the friendships she created and maintained all around the world. Once, in an interview with Tatler Asia, Nedy expressed her plans to retire and turn over the Rustan’s Group of Companies to the third and fourth generations of Tantocos.

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Above Nena, Bienvenido Snr, Nedy, Patrick Jacinto, Rico, Marilou and Eduardo Pineda, Jun and Menchu Lopez, Maritess, Marilen, Renato Enriquez (Photo: Wig Tysmans)

Everybody wished she was just shooting the breeze. But fate had other plans for this woman who was a source of inspiration to many, regardless of the voids she would leave when it takes her away. In the same interview, Nedy said her goal was to lead the family “so that our current and future generations are ready to respond and operate in these challenging times. Or, for that matter, whatever challenges may occur in the future”. Let us trust that the family is able to respond well to the inevitable changes her passing will bring.

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