In this write-up, we answer one pressing issue in the world of dating—should women pay on first dates?
The night is growing old and stories had been shared over a sumptuous meal—the only thing left to do is checkout. But who's taking out their wallets first? In this post, the Tatler team debates whether or not gents should follow the good old 'shoulder-the-bill' way. The night is growing old and stories had been shared over a sumptuous meal—the only thing left to do is checkout. But who's taking out their wallets first? In this post, the Tatler team debates whether or not gents should follow the good old 'shoulder-the-bill' way.
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Below are responses from our team. Do you agree with them?
Maritess Garcia Reyes, Senior Features Editor
She says: It depends, nothing wrong with going Dutch
Why: In this modern day and age, I think both men and women are entitled to ask someone they like for a date. Ergo, I believe that it is only proper that whoever asked should pay. I also see nothing wrong in going Dutch on dates. A date involves two individuals who are both earning a living, so it is just fair to share the bill. Also, when this date eventually progresses to, let's say, marriage in the future, a husband and wife are expected to share expenses at home, so why not practise early on?
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