Nicholas Ho, chairman, Ganyi Group, Hong Kong
What are your thoughts on work-life balance and boundaries? Can men have it all?
No one can have it all; if anyone tells you otherwise, they are either lying to themselves or are egotistical, or both. Life is all about balance—that includes balance both internally and externally, managing one’s own life expectations and struggles, as well as external factors and desires. If you do it right, you will live with as little regret as possible.
Have you ever experienced imposter syndrome?
All the time. But you get used to it, like an old friend. The fear of being inadequate, if managed well, can be a powerful driver to push you out of your comfort zone. If you let it overwhelm you, it can destroy your confidence and render you lost and unproductive.
Do you dress a certain way when you want to feel confident?
When I got married over 10 years ago and had to attend meetings locally and abroad, the counterparts were mostly 2-3 times my age, so I started off dressing in formal three piece suits and grew facial hair. As time passed and I matured, I am definitely more casual. Confidence comes from within and with experience; people can always spot it if you are wearing confidence.
See also: SCWO CEO Angel Chan on Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and Balancing Work, School, and Her Family