The founder of The First Refresh wants to bring beauty services to people in Singapore while making sustainable, flexible work a reality for all of its beauty consultants

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It is undeniable that Singaporeans enjoy getting pampered and treating themselves to grooming and beauty services. Despite this, mobile beauty spas have yet to become the norm in Singapore. Most of us find ourselves having to make time to visit the salon for various needs such as getting our nails fixed or a new set of eyelash extensions. However, there are local businesses that are beginning to offer on-demand beauty services for the busy urbanite or just anyone who’d prefer to stay home to save a bit of time. One such business is The First Refresh, a mobile beauty studio that offers beauty treatments for brows, nails, lashes and more.

Singaporean lawyer-turned-entrepreneur Rachael Kam was inspired to start the business slightly after the circuit breaker last year.

“The idea was triggered then as I thought there was a better way to manage [on-demand beauty services]. There was a demand for this but no platform for people to find well-qualified consultants,” Kam shared.

The First Refresh has a collective of beauty consultants (some of whom have over 10 years of experience) who travel around the island to work with clients in the comfort of their homes. Customers can sign up for its flexible #BetterBeauty Subscription service, where they get to pick from a wide selection of services such as manicures and pedicures, lash lifts, facials and even haircuts. There are different subscription packages (from $75 to $395 per month) depending on customers’ needs.

“With the ongoing pandemic, we have found that a growing number of consumers are moving towards doing their beauty services in the comfort of home for two main reasons: reduced exposure to Covid-19 and the convenience of not having to leave your home,” Kam said.

However, beyond providing beauty aficionados with the luxury of receiving beauty services at home, Kam shared that the company’s main vision is to provide flexible work to women.

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“As a company, making sustainable, flexible work a reality for all of our beauty consultants is our goal,” Kam said. “As a mother myself, I have seen how flexible work opportunities would have benefitted countless women around me who are incredibly talented but had somehow been forced to make a choice between full time work and their family.”

She continued: “I've always thought this should never be mutually exclusive and having the opportunity to work to prove that every day with The First Refresh has been nothing short of a privilege.”

However, being an entrepreneur has its fair share of challenges and hardships—something Kam is aware of. In fact, The First Refresh isn’t her first business. She started Lucy & Mui, an e-commerce fine jewellery company, six years ago while she still held a full-time job. And it was through this business where she faced one of her biggest failures back in 2015 when she was pregnant with her first child. Due to a mistake of routing a huge volume of orders to a new set of craftsmen, she received items that “were often in the wrong ring size, wrong gold colour, set with the wrong stone or arrived days late”.

Reflecting on her experience, Kam shared: “I took away two key lessons from that: operations and supply that work is one of the most valuable things to a business and many things are out of my control—I just have to do the best I can.”

She added that one of the best pieces of advice she’s ever received is that there’s never a good time to take the plunge into full-time entrepreneurship.

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“As I delved headfirst into running The First Refresh, I soon realised that without it being a full-time gig, I wouldn’t be able to keep up. For the first three months, I was working non-stop seven days a week. Heeding this piece of advice has kept me sane,” Kam revealed.

Below, find out how the mother-of-two manages her business while maintaining a healthy work-life balance.

What is a typical morning like for you?

Rachael Kam (RK): I am usually up by around 5.30am to prep for the day. I start with a cup of morning coffee and spend the next hour or two thinking through strategy and plans for The First Refresh—as well as trying to tick off items on my to-do list as fast as I can. I have two kids (a daughter, five, and a son, three) so this sliver of time is where I get the most done before they are up at 7.30am!

Free time: overrated or underrated? Why?

RK: Definitely underrated, and something I need to give higher priority in my life. Some days I barely have time to breathe. It's taken me some time to learn to set boundaries (though they still aren't as clear as I wish they were) and take some time out to unwind. Taking a 30-minute reset for a walk or a coffee run makes a huge difference to clarity of thought, and I try to leave work untouched (as much as I can) on Saturdays so I can stay fully focused on the family.

How do you achieve a work-life balance? How do you set boundaries?

RK: I don't think any entrepreneur truly has a work-life balance, things always seem to crop up just when you try to take a break! Setting boundaries really starts with asking for help—when issues crop up, my natural inclination is to step in and problem solve quickly, but as our team grows, I’ve started letting go of various operational aspects, and that’s been huge for me.

My kids are now at an age where they know when you aren’t focusing on them (“Put down your phone, Mummy!”), when they are “cooking” you a meal at the kitchen set or building a castle with their lego blocks—they demand our full attention. Realising that being 100 per cent present when with them means so much to them has also triggered a mindset shift for me.

How do you deal with your shortcomings?

RK: I constantly ask for feedback—from my husband and those around me. One of the things I learnt early on is not to take negative feedback personally. I take it that the person cared enough about me and my success to tell me what I need to fix (whether about my leadership style, the way I run my business or myself as a person). There's a fine line between taking feedback and overanalyzing, so I do impose my own filters!

I think one of the best ways of self-reflection is to ask yourself constantly "How can I be better, for [insert name of person]". This changes your perspective from our natural selfish state to one of service and giving.

What is an idea/thought that you heard recently, that you thought was interesting?

RK:An entrepreneur is someone who will jump off a cliff and assemble an airplane on the way down.”—Reid Hoffman

One of the truest and most interesting descriptions about entrepreneurship I heard on a podcast with Reid Hoffman; definitely found this to be true in the last 6 years of running a business! 

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How do you unplug?

RK: Holidays (oh I miss those) used to be the times where we would truly unplug. It’s been almost 18 months since our last trip! On a regular basis, unplugging looks like taking an online yoga class, reading by the pool or binge-watching Netflix and eating cake.

How do you stay grounded?

RK: Every night after the kids go to sleep, I spend some time with my husband chatting through the day and the issues that we are both facing at work. These conversations help me stay connected and grounded.

How do you manage stress?

RK: I think managing stress starts with building self-awareness of when you are reaching your breaking point. I was never really good at that, but in recent months I’ve started to notice when I’ve been working too hard, and I pull back slightly before reaching a breaking point. This has really helped me manage through tough periods. Learning to distinguish between what is urgent and what can wait is also something that has helped me manage my stress levels.

What would you consider your greatest accomplishment to date?

RK: Building up my first baby, Lucy & Mui, from scratch. Starting and building a business was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. 6 years on, looking at where the brand is today, the stories we have impacted, and how we’ve grown from our humble beginnings. I am so grateful for the lessons it has taught me as a person and as an entrepreneur.

What is the last thing you do before you go to bed?

RK: Say a prayer. This helps me to reset, and pray for those I love.

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