Not only did Karen Lam have to earn her mother's trust before taking over Estetica Group, she also had to overcome a personal skincare battle of her own after suffering third-degree burns due to a kitchen accident

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For a tiny island such as Singapore, we have a lot to be proud of when it comes to our local beauty scene. Over the past decade, especially in recent years, the country has seen numerous homegrown beauty brands make a name for themselves. While it is common knowledge that it is no easy feat to start a business, no one knows this better than the owners themselves.

Karen Lam, a second-generation business owner in Singapore, can very well attest to this. She joined Estetica Group, founded by her mother, back in 2003 and took over the business in 2016 and has been at the helm of it ever since. 

The local business has subsidiary brands including Est.lab, Verdure, Heure as well as the chain of Estetica beauty salons.

Some may assume that taking over a family business may seem straightforward enough and less daunting than starting a company from scratch. But every entrepreneurial journey comes with its fair share of challenges. In an email interview with Tatler, Lam shared that her own experience “is not without difficult challenges” and she had to work very hard to build up her mother’s trust and confidence in her.

“For the first few years, we often had differing views in the ways we operate the business,” Lam said. “It was also tough trying to gain the trust and respect of many of our long-serving staff. In hindsight, I’m grateful that I had someone like her to ‘mentor’ me in this journey and I have grown to become more resilient and adaptable.”

In fact, one of the first things on her to-do list was to enroll in a course to be certified as a beauty therapist. She started from the ground up, starting first as a therapist to better understand how she could implement policies that would improve staff welfare, job satisfaction, career progression and more.

This also allowed her to engage with customers and identify gaps in the skincare market, thus allowing her to source for the latest facial technologies to launch in-store as well as develop new product innovations to resolve skincare woes.

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While she was busy trying to help customers achieve their skin goals, Lam encountered a personal setback in terms of her own skin health. Seven years ago, she suffered a horrific kitchen accident that left her with third degree burns on about 20 per cent of her entire body. She spent two years undergoing multiple skin graft surgeries and physiotherapy.

“Having been groomed in the beauty industry and brought up within the culture and expectations that came with it, I then spent the next few years covering up all my scars fearing stares and weird looks,” Lam shared. “For me, the physical scarring from the accident layered much deeper mental and emotional scars, and I didn't realise that I had spiralled into depression.”

But the entrepreneur took this major challenge in her stride and worked towards overcoming this obstacle. She was introduced to a fellow burn survivor who taught her “about how each scar is a wound that has healed”, and this should therefore bring about relief and gratitude instead of despair.

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Lam continued: “Since then, I have started to take steps to move on and live life with greater purpose and confidence. Hopefully right where I am rooted in this beauty business, I can continue to inspire people to build up their self-confidence through skin confidence, and more importantly, to know that there’s beauty to be found even in life’s imperfections, scars and all.”

Today, as the director of Est.lab, Lam has spearheaded the company to emerge as a major player in the competitive beauty industry. In under three years, Estetica has expanded from a beauty salon brand to a company with several other beauty brands under its belt. It even launched two new skincare products amid the Covid-19 pandemic, with two more in the pipelines.

In her own words below, Lam shares more about her inspirations, goals and of course, her best beauty tips and advice.

What is a typical morning like for you?

Karen Lam (KL): I start my day at about 5.30am. After dropping my kids off at school, I will go for my daily morning run to kickstart the day with a boost of adrenaline. On the way to work, I listen to a variety of podcasts in the car to fuel my mind.

What do you usually have for breakfast?

KL: A glass of fruit juice, a bowl of oatmeal and eggs. A healthy breakfast gives me the right energy level throughout the day.

What does a standard work day look like for you?

KL: My mornings are usually at the office for various meetings. My afternoons are not as scheduled and fixed. I split my time between the different brands we have, across all functions including product development, marketing, business development and sometimes HR and operations too. This includes visiting our research lab for Product Innovation sessions, speaking to our different partners locally and overseas for expansion matters and when time permits, I'll visit our different Estetica outlets too.

A big part of my role as a business leader is also understanding and managing the team. I try to schedule one-on-one time with our management team to better understand their challenges and of course their goals.

How would you describe your working style?

KL: I encourage independence, initiative and self-motivation while balancing that with being supportive.  For me, the key to doing that is in creating a positive workplace environment that improves morale and employee engagement and communication, as well as empowering my team to be equipped with the necessary resources and autonomy to ensure everything runs smoothly.

Free time: overrated or underrated? Why?

KL: Definitely underrated. I have experienced extreme burnout before so the importance of crafting time for yourself is critical for one’s physical, emotional and mental well-being.

How do you achieve a work-life balance? How do you set boundaries?

KL: It is a real struggle, especially with working from home becoming more or less the default arrangement. The lines between work and home are blurred and it’s easy to fall into the trap of working beyond official hours when I’m at home. I’ve since come up with a schedule that I adhere to strictly to ensure I put aside my work to spend quality time with my family. For example, dinner time is an important family time that we set aside intentionally to connect with one another after a long day. 

What was your first job? What did you learn from it?

KL: My very first job was a door-to-door salesgirl. Basically, I lugged around a huge, heavy luggage filled with Christmas cards and knocked on doors to sell them. There’s probably nothing more scary and humbling than approaching complete strangers and having their doors shut in your face. That was also where I learnt adaptability and perseverance.

How do you chase your dreams?

KL: Remember your why, get up and never give up.

What inspired you to get into the beauty business?

KL: My mum is definitely my source of inspiration. She started the business from nothing and grew it into a successful brand, all without a formal education. Her zest for life, passion for beauty and her hard work poured into this business have inspired me to do the things I never thought possible.

What is your skincare routine for the day?

KL: In the morning, I use Est.lab VitaLift A+ Cleansing Milk to remove the previous night’s residual cream on my face and neck. My skin is sensitive and prone to redness during the day, which is why I alternate between the Est.lab ActivCalm Ultra-Calm Serum to soothe my skin and the ActivCalm Skin Quenching Serum to boost hydration from within. Both serums are a must-have in my day time routine as they help fortify and protect my skin against environmental stressors as I’m out and about all the time.

I apply a small amount of Est.lab ActivCalm Anti-stress Hydra Cream to adequately hydrate my skin for the day and it also helps to quickly reduce skin redness and sensitivity. I love that it is now enhanced with anti-pollution benefits to protect my skin against urban pollution which can damage the skin barrier, leading to inflammation and a whole slew of skin issues. 

Lastly, for UV protection, I will apply my favourite ést.lab SunShield SPF 50*** that also acts as my makeup base as it has colour-adaptive technology that blends into my skin tone easily and achieves a natural, dewy finish. Besides broad spectrum UV protection, this sunscreen also has an anti-blue light filter and vitamins C and E to protect my skin against premature ageing. I really love multi-tasking skincare products that help time-starved individuals like myself.

What is your skincare routine for the night?

KL: When we are asleep, our skin goes into renewal mode. It tends to lose more moisture at night, especially if you sleep in air-conditioned rooms. I spend a little more time on my skincare routine at night as I treat it as a mini self-care session to decompress from the day’s stressors.

A good cleanser refreshes your skin without stripping away the skin’s protective barrier. The first cleanse with Est.lab ActivCalm Makeup Removal Wipes primarily removes makeup and the second cleanse with Est.lab ActivCalm Gentle Hydrating Mousse removes residual dirt and impurities accumulated on the skin throughout the day. I exfoliate twice weekly with Est.lab LumiWhite Exfoliating Scrub to slough away micro matter like dead surface skin cells. 

A good toner helps to balance your skin’s pH and prep the skin for better absorption of follow-on products. I use Est.lab VitaLift A+ Skin Revive Lotion Essence as it contains antioxidants for an anti-ageing boost.

I usually apply the Est.lab VitaLift A+ Miracle Lift Serum with a light lymphatic massage to drain away toxins and excess fluids. On days when I feel my skin is dull and lacklustre, I will apply the LumiWhite 10% PHA Resurfacing Glow Serum to refine my pores and smoothen my skin texture for a boost of natural radiance the next morning. This is a gentle yet powerful serum that I’d recommend to all my friends, especially those with sensitive skin, if they are looking for a product that delivers exceptional skin resurfacing results with no irritation.

This is my favourite part of the routine. I perform a long soothing lifting massage on my face and neck until the cream penetrates into the skin. A good night cream should repair and rejuvenate your skin while you sleep without clogging your pores, like the Est.lab VitaLift A+ Cellular Ultra-Repair Cream. 

Then, I will lightly dab a small amount of Est.lab OptimaLift A+ Multi-Repair Eye Essence around my eye contours and massage with the OptimaLift A+ Intelligent Eye Revitaliser. I especially love the hot compress to melt away my eye fatigue after staring at screens for long hours.

I use the Est.lab VitaLift A+ Brillage Face Mask twice a week for a deep hydration boost and visible firming effects. This nano bio-cellulose mask is also infused with vitamins and nutrients that can be absorbed by your skin more effectively. I also store the mask in the fridge as applying it cold provides immediate relief for my skin especially after a long, tired day.

What is the best beauty advice you’ve received?

KL: Everyone knows this: never ever forget your sunscreen, indoor or outdoor. When I was younger, I loved outdoor activities a lot but didn’t know the importance of protecting my skin from UVA and UVB rays. It took me a lot of time and proper treatments to recover from the damage that was done to my skin. 

What is one beauty product you can’t live without?

KL: Est.Lab SunShield SPF 50***. I super love it because it is a tinted moisturiser with colour-adaptive technology, perfect for a simple work-from-home get up. It is loaded with anti-oxidants and is also water-resistant, with broad spectrum protection and anti-blue light technology. Best of all, it is reef-safe. This is also one of our multi-award winning best-selling products and our customers love this too. 

What is your favourite facial and where do you go for it?

Estetica Meridian Detox Facial. It utilises Eastern therapy methods of Bojin therapy to encourage Qi (energy) flow and skin detoxification by removing Meridian blockages with the use of an Ox Horn tool. It also improves skin tone and skin elasticity for skin tightening and V-lift effect.

Risks: should you take them? Why or why not?

KL: As business people, we take calculated risks all the time and sometimes you may be right; other times wrong. What’s important is the process and the lessons we learn from them that will help us become better in this journey.

How do you manage stress?

KL: A good read and a glass of wine. 

How do you stay motivated?

KL: I love podcasts and especially enjoy listening to speakers like Michelle Obama, Guy Raz and Reid Hoffman. The topics they touch on are close to my heart, especially their conversations with successful entrepreneurs provide me with new and fresh perspectives in the way I learn, think and create.

What would you still like to accomplish?

KL: We are very fortunate to have a robust team and there is definitely a lot of room for us to grow and expand as a company. There are many global opportunities that we are poised to pursue given the right timing and suitable partners. We are proud to have Est.lab launching in China on Alibaba Group’s cross-border e-commerce platform TMall Global. We’ve also introduced our premium brand, Heure, in the United States and it is now available on Sephora.sg as well. 

What is the last thing you do before you go to bed?

KL: I always check on my children one last time before I turn in for the night.

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