With the festive season fast approaching, Iserlis reveals some rules of engagement for hosting seasonal gatherings. “During the fall season, I love to have a touch of festive colour, and play with it. The vibrancy of autumn hues and the anticipation of the magical festive season puts my guests into a celebratory mood that they will enjoy and remember,” she says. “For the upcoming festive season, layering a lot of candles to the table will give the setting an elegant and cosy feel. I like to use clusters of candles to amplify the festive mood, and Christofle has so many beautiful candle holders that go well with the rest of the table setting.”

Her golden rule for creating a meaningful entertaining experience? It’s all about embracing emotions and feelings​​. “I am very real and true to oneself, and I approach everything—especially entertaining at home—with authenticity,” shares the talented hostess. “When creating the mood of the room, I really focus on how I want to make my guests feel when they step into the space. There is no right or wrong; go with your feeling and see what gravitates to you. It should really reflect your personality.”

To capture the hearts of your guests, the veteran events organiser highlights the power of personalisation. “Small but meaningful touches are always treasured by guests. You can use little personal place cards that could also turn into gifts for each guest, individual floral touches behind the plates of each guest, or handwritten notes.”

The choice of tableware is another important component when it comes to the flow of conversation around the table. “I like to create little stories on the table that might become conversations points,” says the graceful host. “The table setting enhances the conversation—for example, when a guest asks about the silverware, or the use of certain scented candles. Sharing warms people's hearts, especially during the festive season. I think that happy conversations are always the way to go.” 

The art of tablescaping ultimately speaks to your innate sense of style and personality. With the help of a little sparkle from your silverware when it comes to dressing up your tables, Iserlis advises that an intimate gathering should have a relaxed ambience that ultimately reflects your personality. 

“Enjoy yourself and don’t be stressed! After all, people come to your home to spend time with you and like-minded people,” she says. “The energy is set by you, as a host. And, believe me, no matter how beautiful the flowers will be or how sumptuous the meal you serve, your energy is what will make your dinner a success and create a special memory!”