The story of Dr Simerdip Kaur and Hardeep Parkash Singh Sandhu meeting through good old-fashioned Punjabi matchmaking is one for the books. Thankfully for their matchmaker mothers, the setup was a great success for the both who are based in the UK – 6 months after the first date, the couple made up their minds to get married. The engagement was in November 2016, and wedding preparations were underway from January 2017. Their biggest challenge? The planning for their Malaysian wedding would take place while the couple remained overseas. Despite the odds, Dr Simer and Hardeep had their dreams of a big fat Punjabi wedding come true, and 4 times that in 4 different events. All it took was a clear goal of their perfect celebrations, planning ahead, and teamwork between their families. “All in all, the common themes in each event was great company, non-stop entertainment and delicious food and drink – we are Punjabis, after all,” Dr Simer, the bride, summed up, when we spoke to her how she captured the spirit of love, culture and family bonds, and of course, the story of her vibrant bridal attires.

1. Tell us about the wedding dress shopping expedition that took you and your family to India.

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Above Daljit Kaur, mother of bride with daughter, Dr Simerdip Kaur

“I had 4 outfits for the 4 day-long celebrations. I looked for ideas by browsing various Indian designer collections online. My family and I subsequently went to Delhi for our wedding shopping and literally shopped till we dropped. The beauty of shopping in India is that there is so much choice; anything is possible when it comes to creating and designing your dream outfit. My outfits were predominantly ready-to-wear, except for my customised lehenga for the Sangeet night from Manish Malhotra in Mehrauli.

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2. How did you modernise a traditional bridal dress, and make it more you?

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Above Bride Dr Simerdip with her groom Hardeep Singh

“My wedding day outfit is by Tarun Tahiliani, one of India’s top designers renowned for combining modern and traditional designs. It was a hand embroidered lehenga choli with gota patti (a type of Indian embroidery originating from Rajasthan), pearls, mirror work and Swarovski crystal embellishments. For accessories, I used my mother’s wedding day jewellery given to her by her grandfather, which was really was very special to me.

 

3. Did you follow any fitness or nutrition plan ahead of the big day?

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Above Bride Dr Simerdip with her groom Hardeep Singh

“I was actually pretty busy with moving from Wales back to England as well as with starting a new job so I was quite physically active and barely went to the gym at all. I did, however, consciously eat clean and avoided junk food.”

 

4. What was your beauty routine like, prior to the wedding?

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Above Dr. Simerdip Kaur with friends at her maiyan and mehendi (henna) day

“I didn’t actually make any changes to my beauty routine. Looking after my body and observing a good diet helped to ensure my skin looked its best.”

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5. Describe how you envisioned your wedding day to be.

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