1. DO be realistic about your dancing ability
If you have always been the life and soul of the dance floor, skip this point and plan an elaborate dance routine. It will be fabulous. But if your style is more along the lines of awkward shuffle, then keep it simple. “Don’t think of your dance as an entertainment segment. The guests are your friends and loved ones who are there not to judge you but to share your sweetest moments together,” says Gladys Tay, principal and dance director of Shawn and Gladys Dance Academy. If you get the jitters, consider a vodka shot and asking your maid of honour, best man and parents to join in midway.
2. DO think about timing
Traditionally, the first dance kicks off the dancing portion of the reception and most couples save it until after the meal, signalling to guests that it is time to get off their seats and ramp up their flirting on the dance floor.
However, couples are growing increasingly fond of a grand entrance, which means arriving at the reception after all guests are in place and launching into the first dance. This can create fantastic energy from the start, but makes it harder to drag your guests away from dinner.
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