Kim Raymond is no stranger to the Malaysia Tatler scene—often spotted in the trendiest and exclusive events in town, dressed to the nines and being exceptionally radiant. It’s fairly difficult to keep scrolling on her Instagram page and not swoon at pictures of her and her daughter, Skylar. The stylish full-time mother who is now pursuing an online Graduate Gemologist Program with the Gemological Institute of America isn’t frightened of revealing her story; especially when it comes to her darling offspring, and how she was conceived via IVF.
Being part of the who’s who in town definitely has her out and about often, and during her heydays, Kim went through a lot of different phases in life. “I would be lying if I said I always wanted children,” she confessed. “I think only as I matured, I started to feel that longing for a child.” Was she able to pinpoint the exact moment? “It was when I realised that I had everything, and that my next journey was finally motherhood,” divulged Kim.
But that journey ended up being one with a twist: it wasn’t that she couldn’t conceive naturally, or so she thought. She brushed this decision as being impatient, but the words ‘there’s a reason behind everything’ finally made sense after she told this story: “My doctor advised me to keep trying after I began taking fertility pills, but I said ‘Nope! Let’s do the IVF. I want a baby now!’ I was quite adamant,” she relayed, “One thing about me is that if I want something now, I will do anything it takes. And well, I really, really wanted a baby.”
This was also due to the fact that her doctor explained that the quality of eggs decrease according to age group. Kim was thus spurred to carry on with IVF then.
“But later, I found out that I actually had a uterine septum (a form of congenital malformation where the uterine cavity is partitioned by a longitudinal septum), which was making it difficult for me to conceive.” This, too, had resulted in her having difficulties carrying as well, but she notes that the scariest part of the entire ordeal was when she had to inject herself for a whole week.
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