How To Be A Good Host

The success of a party boils down to more than just a menu of fine food and a cellar of expensive wine (although those are nice too). It is largely about the company, and hence it always bears to give careful consideration to the mix of people on your guestlist. While that may differ for every social group, the basics of being a good host are universal. Here are some points to note at your next party.

Greet your guests
So simple, yet so important - fundamental to being a good host is making your guests feel comfortable, so establish that contact right from the get-go when they arrive, to set a welcoming mood.

Encourage mingling
Unless you're hosting an intimate gathering for a close group of friends, chances are you'll have a few guests that don't know one another. Be sure to help with the introductions, especially with guests who may be shy.

If you're hosting a sit-down meal, place people who may be newer to the group in between those who already know each other so they don't feel left out of conversations.

Be mindful of your surroundings
Be observant about what's happening in the room to ensure that everyone is comfortable and having a good time. Try to avoid huddling away in a corner, even if you might be with a close friend. Save the heart-to-heart for a separate day, and move around to work the room.

Spark conversations
Avoid the awkward pause that comes after you've introduced your guests by name - instead of leaving them to scramble for something to talk about, try to mention something that your guests have in common or may be interested in to help spark a conversation.

Have fun!
Perhaps you've run out of canapes or fresh glasses, or someone's spilled champagne on the carpet, but whatever it is, keep your cool and just remember to have fun. It's a party, after all! And don't worry about upsetting your guests, most people will hardly mind if they've got a sparkling host in exchange for more hors d'oeuvres.