As Christmas trees and carols signal the beginning of the festivities, we wonder what presents to buy, what gifts to give, what celebrations to plan. But stop for a minute and think—when was the last time you gave the gift of yourself?
It all starts with a spark. The revelation or urge to give back to society often comes as a eureka moment in the midst of a life well lived, but it is a call that many hesitate to answer. In this season of giving, we reached out to four inspiring individuals who have touched the hearts and lives of many. Whether it is to return dignity to the marginalised, provide cheer to the sick, or reviving a lost art and the people whose lives depend on it, these men and women embody the spirit of giving back to society and do it all with a smile.
Meet Iskandar Syah Ismail a.k.a Dr Bubbles, Dr Madhusudhan Shanmugam a.k.a the Teddy Bear Doctor, Sasibai Kimis the founder of Earth Heir and Jennifer Friis of Charwiki.
This is a story of hope and the people who bring it.
Dr Bubbles, describe the moment you realised you wanted to do become a professional clown doctor.
It was scary, because I was doing something nobody was doing. In fact, when I told my mum, she asked me whether I was going to work in a circus. But I am stubborn, so I took it in stride and set out to prove the naysayers wrong. I kept trying to attend classes and courses. I believed that for a hundred no’s, there was one yes, and that was good enough for me. The defining moment for me was when I saw two clown doctors go inside a room housing a child in a coma. They started singing a lullaby, and strummed their ukulele. I was watching all this unfold: I saw the heart rate monitor go from something mellow to something filled with energy. It was magical.
What keeps you going?
The thing is, we have to realise that the work is not about us. The work is about other people. For me, in any charitable endeavour, the moment you say “What about me?” then maybe it isn’t for you. That’s what I keep telling young volunteers and donors. Once you start granting people’s wishes without condition, and then suddenly you think that something is too big for you to fulfil, or if it’s not sexy, then you need to evaluate your priorities; about whether it is all for you, or for others.
Your message to those during the year-end festivities?
Just continue to bring joy to people who need it the most, in any way possible. There are so many projects that you can take part in. I read this one Indonesian novel, Laskar Pelangi by Andrea Hirata, wherein a quote stated (in Malay): Hidup ini adalah untuk memberi sebanyak-banyaknya, dan bukan untuk menerima sebanyak-banyaknya (this life is about giving as much as you can, not receiving as much as you can). I always keep that in mind.