Known for her bronzed beauty and show-stopping style, Ezurin Khyra’s close-knit bond with her children is a side of her that’s lesser seen and rarely talked about. We sit down with this high society darling to learn what motivated her decision to send all 5 of her children to boarding school in the UK
Of the multiple roles she juggles in life, motherhood has been Ezurin Khyra’s greatest adventure.
2020 will see this jet-setting mother of 5 travelling back and forth yet again between Malaysia and the UK as her youngest son, Tunku Rmaan Khyra, starts life in boarding school following years of prep school, entrance examinations and other intense preparations.
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It’s a tiring routine, but not at all unfamiliar to Ezurin, who made similar journeys previously for her older children, Tunku Nadya, Tunku Amaan, Tunku Imaan and Tunku Omaan.
Below, Ezurin shares her experiences of preparing 5 children for boarding school life, the challenges along the way and the proudest moments throughout her journey.
Planning ahead
While Ezurin was eager to see her kids grow up independent and broad-minded in boarding school, the decision to send them abroad wasn’t made in the spur of the moment.
Planning was integral in navigating entrance exams, interviews, and of course, competing with a host of other international students for limited spaces at school.
“If you want to apply for a boarding school by the time your child is 13, you have to start visiting schools early because there are many stages to go through to get into exams,” Ezurin says.
“When my eldest boy was just 4 years old, we started visiting schools; when he was 7, we took him along while visiting schools.”
“We started tuition with the kids when they were 5 years old itself – by the time they were all 7 years old they were used to at least 4 to 6 hours of tuition each day. It was tough, but when our eldest son applied to boarding school, he did well on his first exam and got an unconditional offer, which was great for us to hear after all that effort.”