Members of our Tatler community reveal what 2020 has taught them and their hopes for the New Year
This year will probably go down as the most memorable year in a generation, to put it mildly, but, for some, the challenges have also brought perspective on the things that matter. We chat with members of our Tatler community to see what life lessons 2020 has taught them, what their hopes for 2021 are and if they’ve made any fun new year’s resolutions. Some answers may surprise you.
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Roshini Daswani, social media influencer and founder of children's brand, Milk it Baby
What has 2020 taught you?
The year has presented so many unforeseen challenges that it has taught me to slow down and believe that the universe knows better. It has been bittersweet: the best and yet, the most difficult of years. I have been separated from my husband since early January, right after we had our first child. We thought 2020 would be our first year as a family together but this was not the case. He was supposed to come back to Hong Kong in February for my 30th birthday but I was scared as we didn’t have enough information about the virus. Then Hong Kong implemented the mandatory two week quarantine for all inbound travellers. Then my husband contracted the virus while he was in Bahrain in June. At that point, I accepted that life knew better for us. I needed to be in Hong Kong with my new born where it was safer. My parents were also dealing with the sudden loss of my aunt in September, but having us here was a blessing as we were able to comfort them. My brother got engaged in October and I had a chance to be a part of that too. This would not have been possible if I had been with him in Bahrain. This year, I’ve also been dedicating my time to start a business focused on baby lifestyle products. So, in hindsight, there has definitely been some benefit to staying at home and social distancing. Thank goodness for FaceTime and modern technology.
What are your hopes for 2021?
My hopes for 2021 would be that life and travel go back to normal. If this virus persists then I hope we find a way to move forward and learn to live with it but happily—in our comfort zones and with our loved ones.
Do you have any new year's resolutions?
My new year’s resolution would be to try and manage my time better. With having a child, blog and a new business, I am struggling to currently find the time to do everything I want in a day. I vow to wake up earlier, feel more energised and kick ass.
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