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Your first year in university is the time to lay the foundation for a successful academic career. Tatler speaks to five students about their perspectives on conquering the fear 
of being a freshman

As you begin your transition into adulthood, it isn’t just about having a fresh, clean slate. The decisions you make and the actions you take during your freshman year will have a significant impact on the rest of your university experience.

Freshman year of college can be a life-changing experience, full of new opportunities and challenges. One of the best ways to prepare for the transition is to do your research and know what to expect. Freshman year can be a lot to handle, but by setting goals, getting involved in extracurricular activities and seeking out support, you can survive and thrive in your first year of university.

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Familiarising Yourself With Your Degree and University  

Some say one of the most important things to do when preparing for your freshman year is to do your research. By knowing what you can expect to experience—from course duration and syllabus to securing accommodation and organising funds—you’d want to have all the information you can get on hand, especially if you’re alone in a foreign country. 

College campuses can be large and confusing, so it’s essential to familiarise yourself with your surroundings as soon as possible. Take a campus tour and try to find your way around before classes start. However, it can be challenging for students looking to further their studies overseas to get a good grasp on the student support they can expect to receive before the start of their degree course. Despite these limitations, it didn’t stop Ethan Wong, a student majoring in electronic engineering at the University of Southampton, from learning more about his university of choice. “Being far from the country I chose to study in, reviewing plenty of virtual tours of the campus on YouTube and the university website helped create my first impressions of the university grounds,” he says.

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Ethan Wong
Above Ethan Wong, an electronic engineering student at University of Southampton
Ethan Wong

Besides that, Wong also took it upon himself to learn more about his area of residence in Southampton. Keeping a log of nearby shops, cafes, entertainment sites and places of personal interest helped him build a navigation of the city. “Keeping a tab on where the nearest grocery stores are helped kickstart my journey abroad. Plus knowing where the nearby parks and cafes are provided comfort and made me less anxious during my first few weeks there,” he adds. 

For some students closer to home, attending open days and seeking advice from their seniors before the start of their semester was one way of preparing themselves for the high school-to-university transition. Laurel Soo, an architecture undergraduate at Taylor’s University, had taken these measures to better understand her course and industry. “Attending open days gave me ample opportunities to ask questions about my chosen degree and subsequent lessons in person. Moreover, I had asked my dad to reach out to his friend, whose job was directly related to my chosen degree. He gave me various pointers regarding coursework, university life, and the proper steps to take once I graduate. It was an extremely beneficial conversation,” she states. 

Navigating Uncharted Waters

Another critical aspect of surviving your freshman year is how you handle your transition to a new environment. Leaving a structured and monitored routine for a completely independent lifestyle can be rather challenging. You will be pushed out of your comfort zone, with an increased need to think on your feet and tackle problems on your own. 

For most freshmen, being independent starts with taking care of the bare essentials, whether it is making their own meals, doing their own laundry or managing their own finances. However, Nikuni Vig, an accounting student at the National University of Singapore (NUS), thinks there is more than meets the eye. 

“Being independent isn’t just handling your daily chores; it’s also about managing your emotions and time effectively,” he says. “Some of the things I struggled with were impromptu presentations, managing work without past experience, or speaking up and taking the lead on tasks.” 

This was particularly true for Soo, who was tasked with building 3D models for one of her modules in architecture. The brief was standard materials but total creative freedom, which sounded easier than it actually was. “My approach was to browse the internet for inspiration and references to develop an effective plan. But determining the right material to use for the scale and proportion required was no easy feat,” she says. 

It was through this project that she realised that becoming independent doesn’t necessarily mean doing everything alone. “It was through attentiveness and much effort that I could produce the models to my satisfaction. The entire process was significantly easier and even fun once I became acquainted with the people in my course facing similar challenges.”  

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Nikuni Vig
Above Nikuni Vig, an accounting student at National University of Singapore
Nikuni Vig

Going the Extra Mile

College is also a great time to get involved in different societies and organisations on campus. Joining a club or society that aligns with your interests can be a great way to meet new people and make friends. Volunteering is also a great way to give back to the community and gain valuable experiences. 

Einstein Ng, an engineering student at Taylor’s University, finds that joining various clubs allows him to tap into other personal interests and foster connections with like-minded people, including potential business partners. “Throughout my time in Taylor’s, I’ve been in the Makers Club, Barista Club, Agents of Tech (AOT), Astronomy Club, and Taylor’s Lakeside Model United Nations (TLMUN). My priority is to be equipped with engineering skill sets by learning from the best. From these experiences, I was exposed to things like coding, public speaking, and coffee making as well,” he says. 

On the other hand, Wong from the University of Southampton uses his newfound passion for de-stressing and countering feelings of homesickness. “I’ve always dreamed of dancing, so I joined the Southampton Street Dance Society! I would never have imagined myself performing in front of hundreds,” he says. 

As a Malaysian far from home, he strongly suggests joining a cultural society that is close to your heritage. “As a member of the Malaysian Southampton Association, we often have social dinners to enjoy our local delicacies. There are also crossover events with other Malaysian societies from other universities in the UK, such as the Nottingham Games Sports Tournament. They provide a sense of comfort one looks for when being far away from home.” 

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Einstein Ng
Above Einstein Ng, an engineering student at Taylor's University
Einstein Ng

Make Connections That Matter

Many say that the friends you make in college are your friends for life, but there will be peer pressure and societal aspects that you will encounter as a freshman. One of the most common pressures faced by college students is drinking. Many students feel pressure to drink and party, but it’s important to remember that it’s not mandatory to participate in these activities. You should always make the decision that feels right for you. 

Having felt compelled to indulge in certain social situations, Danial Akmal, a law undergraduate at Taylor’s University, says, “The most challenging part is to stay true to yourself and maintain your principles. Sometimes when we come across a group of new friends, we tend to sacrifice our values and do things we don’t enjoy to get temporary validation. However, my best advice is to just be yourself, even when you feel the urge to do otherwise. True friends will come to you and accept you for who you are.” 

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