Man in red shirt preparing for stair run at sunset.
Cover A more holistic approach to supercharging your wellness ahead of the festive season, as shared by cardio coach Lily Sim (Photo: Getty Images)
Man in red shirt preparing for stair run at sunset.

Certified cardio coach and running enthusiast Lily Sim shares a more holistic approach to strengthening your wellness ahead of the Lunar New Year

As Chinese New Year approaches, the pressure to look our best can often lead to frantic diets, exhausting workouts and a whole lot of frustration. But it doesn’t have to be that way. This festive season is the perfect time to redefine our approach to fitness. 

Cardio coach and runner Lily Sim’s relationship with fitness was once tinged with guilt, anxiety and body image issues. “I used to be a gym rat, and at the time my mindset was all about losing weight and looking slim,” says Sim, who picked up the hobby of running during her first year of working in Australia.

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“After the pandemic, I led run clubs for a while and put them on hold temporarily when I realised I wasn’t really enjoying exercise anymore. There was a lot of peer pressure to run faster or train harder. So I started to explore what I wanted to do. I realised what gives me a ‘high’ is helping people get into the sport of running and hit their fitness milestones.”   

An accountant by profession, Sim left corporate life at PwC Malaysia to pursue a full-time career as a fitness entrepreneur and coach. She is in the midst of launching her new fitness app, Strive Fit, which offers tailored workout plans to users based on their profile and needs.    

Ahead of the Lunar New Year, Sim shares how she cultivated a sustainable fitness routine that nourishes body, mind and soul. 

Having the right frame of mind

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Above Lim left corporate like to become a cardio coach and fitness entrepreneur (Photo: Lily Sim)

The festive season can derail even the best-laid fitness plans, but Sim insists it’s all about your mindset.

“Don’t focus on losing the most weight or punishing yourself for not meeting New Year’s resolutions,” she says. Many people panic as the year begins, turning to crash diets or excessive discipline, only to end up frustrated. Sim cautions against this “all or nothing” approach, as it often leads to burnout.

“It ends up being all about bashing yourself up, and that’s a bad place to start,” she says. “Others start out thinking that working out is about losing weight and building performance. There’s a misconception that to be good at fitness, you have to lose weight and be good at workouts. But along the journey, you realise it’s more about incorporating movement into your lifestyle more regularly. At the end of the day, you're doing it for yourself, and it doesn’t matter if you’re not good at it at first.”

The value of slowing down

For Sim, slowing down is a simple but transformative habit—whether at meals or in life.

“We tend to overeat when we’re stressed, especially during the festive season with so many events,” she says. The solution? Start slowing down and eating more mindfully. Savour festive treats like yee sang and seafood instead of rushing through your plate.

Using smaller plates and taking breaks between servings can also help with portion control, while forcing you to get up and move more.

“Even walking to grab second helpings encourages movement,” she adds. Beyond eating, Sim encourages slowing down your commitments—like scaling back on hosting too many events or unnecessary outings—which can reduce stress-eating and help you be more present.

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Incorporating movement into your lifestyle

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Young dad and little daughter doing exercise together in the sports ground joyfully
Above Sim suggests walking with friends, neighbours, or even pets as a way to incorporate more movement in everyday life (Photo: Getty Images)
Young dad and little daughter doing exercise together in the sports ground joyfully

As Sim emphasises, fitness doesn’t have to mean gruelling workouts—it can be as simple as making moving a part of your daily routine.

“Walking is one of the most underrated exercises,” she says. To keep it social, Sim suggests walking with friends, neighbours, or even pets. “Ask someone to join you for an evening walk or tag along as they walk their dog,” she recommends. If walking isn’t an option, mat Pilates is another accessible choice, particularly for those with knee pain or arthritis.

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Above Sim shares workout advice for busy mums and office workers (Photo: Lily Sim)

I found that exercising whenever I could and not being a perfectionist about it really helped.

- Lily Sim -

As a mom juggling fitness and parenting, Sim has learned to embrace flexibility.

“Time-blocking never worked for me because kids don’t follow schedules,” she admits with a grin. Instead, she exercises whenever the opportunity arises, even in unexpected moments. “Sometimes I work out on their playmat in home clothes when I have a little spare time.”

For busy people, Sim recommends simple but effective moves like Bird Dog, Glute Bridge, and Dead Bug, which strengthen the core and glutes. “These exercises are perfect for postpartum mums or office workers who sit a lot,” she explains. Her message is clear: You don’t need a perfect routine—just seize small windows of time and prioritise progress over perfection.

“I did these three exercises when I was trying to fix my diastasis recti after giving birth. That means my abs are split–it's really interesting because this is just part of women’s health that is not often talked about enough. It’s one of those things you only know if you’ve gone through it. As I was trying to fix it, I discovered these effective mat Pilates movements that work the glutes and the core muscles.” 

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Fitness thoughts for the start of the year

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Female Runner Jogging in the city and finishing her training with her hand up in the air screaming with happiness. She made her goal!
Above Fitness isn’t about an all-or-nothing approach—it’s about doing your best consistently (Photo: Getty Images)
Female Runner Jogging in the city and finishing her training with her hand up in the air screaming with happiness. She made her goal!

For anyone feeling discouraged by year-end fitness goals, Sim has this message:

“It’s okay to have aesthetic goals—like trying to fit into that cheongsam or gown—but approach them with a sustainable mindset,” she says. With only a few days into the New Year, there’s still time to make meaningful progress. “Consider hiring a personal trainer or setting smaller, achievable goals,” she suggests.

Avoid the trap of extreme measures or thinking it’s too late, Sim says.

“Fitness isn’t about an all-or-nothing approach—it’s about doing your best consistently,” she says. “Be practical with your fitness goals. After you’ve done your best, if you still can’t fit into that dress or gown you love, there’s no shame in wearing shapewear. The worst case scenario is you rent another gown. Again, it’s about being sustainable and deciding to use this time to motivate yourself rather than beating yourself up.” 

With a positive mindset and clear, realistic goals, you’ll find yourself starting the year on a stronger, more confident note.

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Tania Jayatilaka
Digital Editor, Tatler Malaysia
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Previously contributing to Esquire Malaysia, Expat Lifestyle and Newsweek, Tania oversees digital stories across Tatler’s key content pillars, also leading the Front & Female platform exploring issues and topics affecting women today.