Solo bachelorette trips can encourage self-reflection and provide opportunities for personal growth (Photo: courtesy of Pexels)
Cover Solo bachelorette trips can encourage self-reflection and provide opportunities for personal growth (Photo: courtesy of Pexels)
Solo bachelorette trips can encourage self-reflection and provide opportunities for personal growth (Photo: courtesy of Pexels)

A solo bachelorette or ‘solorette’ provides a refreshing alternative (or addition) to the often unrealistic expectations of a traditional group celebration

In the months leading up to the wedding come many rites of passage for the bride-to-be―saying “yes” to the dress, bridal showers and, of course, the iconic bachelorette party. Once a simple night out with close friends, the traditional pre-wedding celebration has evolved into a pricey, multi-day affair that often includes round-trip airfare, elaborately themed itineraries, coordinated outfits and Instagrammable backdrops. 

With these new expectations comes a certain pressure on the bride: to please a demanding crowd and take part in enforced fun amid the chaos of wedding preparations. Amid the chaos, some brides have opted out of the group for a more peaceful alternative to the long-standing tradition—the solorette.

A solorette, or solo bachelorette trip, is precisely what it sounds like: The bride goes on her bachelorette all by herself for some extra “me time”, and uses this time away for self-reflection, indulgence and relaxation before the big day.

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Why are brides-to-be opting for solorette trips?

Although the idea of a solo bachelorette isn’t entirely new, the term solorette began gaining traction in late 2024, after lifestyle publication Popsugar published an article on pre-wedding solo holidays. Since then, the concept has resonated with brides who seek something more personal—and more peaceful—before the big day.

Whether it’s a wellness retreat, a nature escape or a weekend staycation, more women are embracing the idea that celebrating yourself can start with a solo trip. The rise of the solorette reflects a broader cultural shift in how women approach both travel and themselves.

Social media has played a decisive role in normalising this trend. Platforms like TikTok, Instagram and YouTube are filled with female creators sharing their solo travel experiences—from dreamy resort stays to honest advice on safety, budgeting and eating alone. These posts have helped dismantle stigma, boost visibility and empower others to see solo travel as a possible or even empowering option.

The data backs the rise of the solo female traveller (brides-to-be or not). A recent survey by the tourism market research firm Future Partners found that nearly 40 per cent of female travellers are interested in embarking on a solo trip in 2025—up by eight per cent from the previous year. Meanwhile, luxury travel network Virtuoso reports that the majority of its solo clients are women, at 71 per cent. 

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Above A solo bachelorette trip can feel like a luxurious gift to yourself before the wedding (Photo: Pexels)

Destinations and travel professionals are also beginning to take notice of this trend. Luxury hotels and wellness resorts are curating solo traveller-friendly packages, offering everything from private excursions to wellness itineraries. Travel agents are stepping in to make the experience better and easier, removing the pressure of planning and helping brides create moments that feel elevated, intentional and personalised. When done right, a solorette can feel less like checking a box and more like a luxurious gift to yourself during a busy time in your life. 

7 best solo bachelorette destinations

Koh Samui, Thailand

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Above Koh Samui boasts several stunning beaches (Photo: Pexels)

With buildings no taller than the coconut trees, Koh Samui offers a mix of white-sand beaches, rich cultural experiences and relaxation. Home to a plethora of yoga retreats and wellness-focused resorts, it’s the perfect destination to unwind before tying the knot. Think White Lotus season three, minus the drama, of course. 

Seoul, South Korea

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Above Seoul’s vibrant street food scene offers a delicious array of options (Photo: Pexels)

Seoul is a dream for beauty-loving brides who fancy a mix of retail therapy, culture and good food. From centuries-old palaces to high-tech skincare boutiques and buzzing night markets, the city offers the perfect blend of tradition and trend.

Amsterdam, the Netherlands 

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Above Amsterdam's canals are a defining feature of the city, with a network of over 165 canals and 1,700 bridges (Photo: Pexels)

With a unique blend of vibrant culture, historic charm and a progressive atmosphere, the Dutch capital is one of Europe’s greatest cities. Spend your days journaling by picturesque canals, marvelling at historical architecture and wandering around world-class museums. 

Corfu, Greece

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Above Corfu is known for its clear, turquoise waters, making it a popular destination for beach lovers (Photo: Pexels)

Corfu is renowned for its stunning natural beauty, featuring lush landscapes, pristine beaches and crystal-clear waters, as well as its rich cultural heritage with a unique blend of Venetian, French and British influences. The island’s diverse offerings, from its historic Old Town to its lively beach resorts and traditional villages, make it a popular destination for a wide range of travellers. From Corfu, you can also explore the neighbouring islands of Paxos and Antipaxos.

Bali, Indonesia 

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Above Pura Ulun Danu Bratan is dedicated to Dewi Danu, the Hindu goddess of water (Photo: Pexels)

Bali is where luxury meets nature in a leisurely style. The island’s unique Balinese history, with its beautiful temples and ceremonies, makes it a unique cultural experience. From surfing and snorkelling to yoga retreats and exploring ancient sites, Bali caters to a wide range of interests.

Lisbon, Portugal 

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Above Lisbon is known for its charming old neighborhoods and colorful architecture (Photo: Pexels)

Lisbon is the perfect destination for a bride seeking a city with old-world charm, scenic mountain-top views and consistently sunny weather. It is a small and easy city to explore on foot, despite its steep hills.

Osaka, Japan

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Above Osaka is the third largest city in Japan (Photo: Pexels)

Known for its “kuidaore” spirit (eat until you drop), Osaka is a neon-lit haven for food lovers. From street stalls and sushi counters to izakaya restaurants and bustling markets, there is something for everyone. Add in great shopping, a safe atmosphere and an easy-to-navigate metro system; Osaka is an ideal city escape.

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