Cover Classic romance abounds at Aman Venice, designed by Jean-Michel Gathy (Photo: courtesy of Aman Venice)

Tatler asked Celia Chu, André Fu, Jean-Michel Gathy, and other interior designers of luxury hotels around the world how they create a seductive atmosphere—turns out, it’s more than just mood lighting

“People make love in hotels more than anywhere else,” says New York-based interior designer, Clodagh. There’s a good reason for that. A change of scenery is always exciting, and being away from home, away from the familiar, opens couples up to more possibilities for romance. Perhaps it’s finally getting some privacy from the kids, a bigger shower or—better yet—a private pool.

Whatever it is, there’s something about hotels that make you want to hang up that “do not disturb” sign and order a bottle of their finest champagne—and that something is often by design. We spoke with some of the world’s leading interior designers about the sexy, subtle ways they design hotel rooms to inspire moments of intimacy.

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Celia Chu, principal owner, Celia Chu Design & Associates

Hotels designed by Celia Chu: Rosewood Bangkok, Grand Hyatt Kuala Lumpur, Hyatt Regency Danang 

I firmly believe that romance in today’s world extends beyond traditional couple scenarios—it can [also] be found in moments of self-reflection and self-care.

My design approach centres around creating open and versatile spaces that accommodate various expressions of romance, whether someone is seeking a private retreat or a romantic setting for two. By incorporating elements that cater to both individual and shared experiences, my goal is to create hotel spaces that are not only aesthetically pleasing but also intimately connected to the multifaceted nature of human relationships.

Creating a romantic space involves acknowledging that romance can manifest at any given moment and in any place. There are numerous ways to evoke a sense of intimacy; while design alone cannot guarantee the occurrence of romance, incorporating intriguing ideas and creativity during the design process can enhance the potential for romantic moments to unfold.

It is fascinating to explore the concept of romance in unexpected spaces such as bars. In these settings, we employ design strategies such as smaller bar stools and narrower corridors. These enable individuals to accidentally brush shoulders or sit closer together, creating opportunities for spontaneous connections. One never knows when a mere touch of the shoulder might ignite a mutual spark, leading to an enchanting connection.

In hotel design, we always consider the purpose of each space and embrace the role of Cupid, facilitating encounters and interactions among guests, where people can come together and embark on potential romantic journeys.

André Fu, founder, André Fu Design

Hotels designed by André Fu: The Upper House Hong Kong, Waldorf Astoria Bangkok, Hotel the Mitsui Kyoto

I have always considered the key to any hospitality experience is to provoke emotions—it is an intangible aspect of design that ultimately connects [with] the customer. It is the feeling of warmth and intimacy that will bring people back to a hotel.

I believe that lighting is key—a room that is bathed in a halo of sensuous glow is always mesmerising. Another aspect is the way a room is articulated—I am always keen to create different pockets of spaces for one to snuggle and lounge in. One example is the Japanese cushions we have placed extensively on the windows in all guest rooms within The Upper House in Hong Kong. 

[Meanwhile] The Residence—a recently launched two-bedroom rooftop duplex suite at Claridge’s [in London]—offers an infinity hydro pool on a private terrace atop London’s skyline, with multiple intimate spaces for an engaging conversation or cosying up by the fire.

Finally, avoid the clichés and spaces designed purely for the sake of photo-taking.

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Jean-Michel Gathy, architect and principal designer, Denniston

Hotels designed by Jean-Michel Gathy: Aman Venice, Aman New York, One&Only Reethi Rah Maldives

Romance operates on a different plane altogether. It revolves around a sense of intimacy with one’s partner and the shared experience of diverse moments—the unfolding vistas, secluded courtyards, interior spaces and the vibrant energy surrounding a bar.

I firmly believe in the power of emotion and the significance of romance. But romance defies easy definition. It is an emotion, not a technicality. While technical elements can be crafted, such as walls with specific acoustic properties or precise shades and ratios, creating emotion is done by layering the space, and supporting it with a mixture of physical balance, proportion and colours.

When it comes to evoking romance, a mere neon lamp devoid of layering will not suffice. Instead, what is required are cosy nooks, intimate lighting and elements that remain concealed from the prying eyes of others.

Clodagh, founder and CEO, Clodah Design

Hotels designed by Clodagh: East Hotel Miami, Six Senses Duoro Valley, Six Senses Kaplankaya 

People make love in hotels more than anywhere else. There’s a feeling of letting go—you can throw your clothes on the floor, rumple the sheets and order the champagne. If you get tired of making love on the bed, you make space on the floor or on the chaise lounge by the window. I do a lot of window seats, so a couple can sit and connect while enjoying the view, and so nomadic sex can take place. Having a space for breakfast is also something I consider—there’s something very private and intimate about sharing breakfast with someone, so you want a dedicated place where the couple can eat together; spilling scrambled eggs on the sheets is not very sexy.

Taking into account how people will feel is important. Lighting is a key factor, because if people know they’re badly lit, their whole body goes into shock. You want a little buzz of romantic light. Sound attenuation [matters]—the door should shut properly and you shouldn’t hear people going up and down the hallway. Also, the smell of a room should have a universality about it that’s not necessarily masculine or feminine.

We put so much emphasis on how things look, and indeed that’s important, but it’s also important to consider how a brand feels.

I believe everything shouldn’t look too new. There are subtle ways of ageing that create comfort—I’ve been in hotels where the art is really horrible in the bedrooms, where they think they are being clever. But you don’t want to be clever in the bedroom—you want to have something that’s just beautiful and lovely to look at; that soothes the soul.

Vicky Wang, managing director APAC, Wimberly, Allison, Tong & Goo (WATG)

Hotels designed by WATG: Nobu Hotel Los Cabos, Rissai Valley: A Ritz-Carlton Reserve, Mandarin Oriental Bodrum

You cannot have romance on your mind without feeling relaxed. Designs incorporating water features with [water’s] tranquil nature and soothing sounds, or a rewarding view of the ocean and beyond to leverage on the gifts of nature, create an environment poised for relaxation.

We also think about the guest journey, to introduce moments of delight as they traverse the spaces— for example, an indoor-outdoor blurring of spaces where we allow landscape and nature to be part of the narrative; or passing through a corridor with art and artefacts to highlight local crafts; or to just be immersed in an orchestration of light and shadows.

Privacy is a key element to consider—for example, having cabanas at the public pool area and ensuring lush foliage in between villas to serve as privacy screens. When it comes to guest rooms, perhaps [we enable] access to a private pool or ample balcony space with scene-stealing views to savour some champagne. [We always do] his and hers separate sinks in the bathroom so as to [avoid the] need to jostle for space—and, of course, a non-negotiable bathtub.

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