More Asian men are hitting the gym, and they’re often chasing a chiselled look popularised by influencers and the increasingly diverse superheroes of the Marvel universe. Getting fit is a good thing, but when can it turn toxic? We spoke with guys about body image and the mental-physical health connection
Cut, ripped, jacked or swole: where do celebrities fall on the continuum and what are you? This was the premise of a 2021 Men’s Health story outlining what each adjective requires (in terms of chest, abs, arms and lower body definition) and an ascending scale of mass: from Fight Club-era Brad Pitt to ripped footballer Cristiano Ronaldo to Hugh Jackman’s jacked Wolverine to The Rock.
It’s the kind of scrutiny that women have faced since forever and that men are increasingly up against when it comes to their own bodies and the pressure to conform to hard-to-attain standards. At the same time, the story is suggestive of a genuine desire among many men to understand how they can look and feel better well beyond their 30s.
While social media and pop culture have played their parts to get us here, so has the explosive growth of the wellness industry—a roughly US$4 trillion juggernaut that includes yoga retreats, athleisure and supplements—and greater awareness of the value of exercise and nutrition.
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For William Han, the wake-up call came around Chinese New Year 2018. The Singapore native had recently relocated to Hong Kong with his wife and two young daughters and was working in a high-pressure environment as managing director at a bank. Han spied a little bulging in his stomach in a family photo. “I was getting a bit conscious about that, and I also noticed my energy levels were dropping; mentally I wasn’t as sharp as I wanted to feel,” says Han. Health reports revealed that Han’s cholesterol was on the rise and his liver wasn’t in great shape. “I had to arrest the slide; I was motivated by my family,” he says. “Was there vanity involved? Yeah, I guess along the way there was, but I was really inspired by a sincere desire to try to correct my course of actions and the way I was damaging my body.”
Han, who had been sceptical about the expense and results of personal trainers, decided to give one a try. He began working with Jon Lee, co-founder of Hong Kong’s One Personal Training. Over four years, they have developed a meaningful relationship; they communicate almost daily, and Han has slowly achieved noticeable results. The initial focus was on building core muscle and losing fat; then building muscle strength; and, lately, 43-year-old Han is working to reduce his body fat further from 21 per cent to 15 per cent. “It took a huge mindset shift in the way I think about health and well-being because all these things have a dependency—the way you sleep, drinking more water, the amount of exercise, and how you plan out your days,” says Han. “I learnt so much from Jon that I could very well stop [using his services] now but there are benefits to having someone push me.”
When Han looks around the gym, he sees some in for a quick fix, prepping for a wedding in three months, and others like himself who have evolved to wanting to maintain their well-being for the long haul. “Where we are now, it feels like a community and a journey that’s been quite well travelled by many.”