Christine Tiu and Clifton Esteban
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Christine Tiu and Clifton Esteban

Rooted in years of friendship and guided by faith, Christine Tiu and Clifton Esteban’s wedding brought intimacy and meaning to every detail

Now and then, a celebration comes along that feels just perfect. That is precisely how it felt at Clifton Esteban and Christine Tiu’s wedding: intimate yet spirited, joyful without being overdone and filled with the kind of memories that linger long after the final toast.

Tiu and Esteban met through Kai Shao, a Chinese matchmaking tradition arranged by mutual connections. Neither knew anything about the other before an in-person meeting at a board game café during the pandemic. “Clifton likes to joke that it was love at ‘half’ sight,” Tiu says, as both were clad in face masks. She remembers him as quiet and reserved, a first impression that his friends still find unbelievable today. The introduction sparked something easy and warm, a connection that quickly grew into something neither had expected.

Exactly three years since their first meeting, Esteban proposed in a secluded corner of the Ayala Triangle Gardens. Though typically confident, the groom fumbled nervously with his coffee and his words. “He spilt his drink while trying to get the ring from his pocket,” Tiu recalls. “He is normally confident, so this made me giggle!” But in the simplicity of that moment, with just the two of them in a quiet city garden, everything fell into place. 

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Sealed with a kiss
Above Sealed with a kiss
Sealed with a kiss
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Angela Sy, Christine Tiu, Alex Martin, Audrey Ngui
Above Angela Sy, Christine Tiu, Alex Martin, Audrey Ngui
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The groom with Perkin Chai, Chester Esteban, Dustin Cheng, Wesley King
Above The groom with Perkin Chai, Chester Esteban, Dustin Cheng, Wesley King
Angela Sy, Christine Tiu, Alex Martin, Audrey Ngui
The groom with Perkin Chai, Chester Esteban, Dustin Cheng, Wesley King
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Raf Dionisio, Perkin Chai, Bryan Chan, Nikki Go-Cedenio, Klentz Chua, Reena Chua, Delphine Buencamino, Kate Teng, Mateo Fabregas, Christine Tiu, Clifton Esteban, Gerson Abesamis, Terence and Bianca Lok, Dustin Cheng, Carmy GuñoCheng, Michael Rosanes, Pong Magtibay, Timothy Lim, Wesley King, Lloyd Tan, Andrew Sy
Above Raf Dionisio, Perkin Chai, Bryan Chan, Nikki Go-Cedenio, Klentz Chua, Reena Chua, Delphine Buencamino, Kate Teng, Mateo Fabregas, Christine Tiu, Clifton Esteban, Gerson Abesamis, Terence and Bianca Lok, Dustin Cheng, Carmy GuñoCheng, Michael Rosanes, Pong Magtibay, Timothy Lim, Wesley King, Lloyd Tan, Andrew Sy
Raf Dionisio, Perkin Chai, Bryan Chan, Nikki Go-Cedenio, Klentz Chua, Reena Chua, Delphine Buencamino, Kate Teng, Mateo Fabregas, Christine Tiu, Clifton Esteban, Gerson Abesamis, Terence and Bianca Lok, Dustin Cheng, Carmy GuñoCheng, Michael Rosanes, Pong Magtibay, Timothy Lim, Wesley King, Lloyd Tan, Andrew Sy

To find a church, the couple was pragmatic. The groom created a spreadsheet of 28 churches across Metro Manila. Their desired date, May 25, 2025, narrowed the list dramatically, and only one church had an opening: San Sebastian Basilica. Tiu calls it destiny. Although under renovation at the time, the church’s faded grandeur and quiet mystery drew them in immediately.

There was also a more profound, almost mystical connection. The couple had met on July 16, the Feast of Our Lady of Mount Carmel, and only later discovered that its original 1618 image is enshrined in San Sebastian. “It was truly the perfect church for us—more special and meaningful than we could have ever imagined,” she enthuses. 

As for the wedding, the couple veered away from a traditional formula, prioritising choices that reflected their personalities. A colour palette of orange and blue paid homage to Esteban’s fire sign and Tiu’s water sign. The invitations were a work of play and art: hand-illustrated and dotted with “easter eggs” hidden throughout, made especially for those close enough to decode them.

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Wedding essentials, including invitations by Neonovelties
Above Wedding essentials, including invitations by Neonovelties
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Flower girls Mari Tiu and Amanda Tiu
Above Flower girls Mari Tiu and Amanda Tiu
Wedding essentials, including invitations by Neonovelties
Flower girls Mari Tiu and Amanda Tiu
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The newlyweds with Caitline Esteban, Elaine Esteban, Charles Esteban, Chester Esteban, Rachel Ng Esteban, Chelsea Esteban
Above The newlyweds with Caitline Esteban, Elaine Esteban, Charles Esteban, Chester Esteban, Rachel Ng Esteban, Chelsea Esteban
The newlyweds with Caitline Esteban, Elaine Esteban, Charles Esteban, Chester Esteban, Rachel Ng Esteban, Chelsea Esteban

The bride wore a custom gown designed by her sister-in-law, fashion designer Sari Lazaro, while her veil was repurposed from her mother’s 1983 wedding dress. “It felt both sentimental and seamless. People complimented it without even knowing its history—it just quietly carried meaning,” Tiu says. As the founder of Amami, a Filipino heritage jewellery brand, she proudly showcased local artistry through her accessories, the groom’s mother-of-pearl cufflinks and even the sponsors’ gifts.

The couple opted to host their intimate reception at Nobu Manila, transforming it into the largest omakase-style setup the restaurant had ever seen. Guests were greeted with both a sense of occasion and ease as the newlyweds entered to the lively beats of Hakuna Matata, skipping a romantic ballad for something funny and lighthearted. They also skipped the common same-day video edit and instead shared a concept film, a humorous reenactment of one of their favourite memories: dressing up as Mr Bean and Teddy for Halloween.

The bride’s brother, Christian, deejayed and kept the energy high throughout the evening. The occasion never dulled, even during the father-daughter dance choreographed to Bad Romance by Lady Gaga. “It was our way of sharing his fun side and making the moment feel true to who we are,” she explains.

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Stephen and Lolita Sy, Butch and Julie Go, Hans and Carol Sy, Lianne and Jerry Tiu, Willy and Geraldine Ocier with the couple
Above Stephen and Lolita Sy, Butch and Julie Go, Hans and Carol Sy, Lianne and Jerry Tiu, Willy and Geraldine Ocier with the couple
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Bianca and Terence Lok, Dustin and Carmy Cheng, Lace Tan
Above Bianca and Terence Lok, Dustin and Carmy Cheng, Lace Tan
Stephen and Lolita Sy, Butch and Julie Go, Hans and Carol Sy, Lianne and Jerry Tiu, Willy and Geraldine Ocier with the couple
Bianca and Terence Lok, Dustin and Carmy Cheng, Lace Tan

From their chosen wedding choir, Minstrels of Hope, to the bride’s prenup shoot look by Vinta Gallery and a cake made by her former classmate, each element was carefully handpicked. “We made a conscious effort to support friends, local brands and small businesses,” Tiu comments.

The speeches were especially moving. “It was the first time my mum and Clifton’s dad gave public speeches,” she shares. “Having all our loved ones—including some who flew halfway across the world—together under the same roof to celebrate our union was a rare and precious memory we’ll always cherish.”

As they enter a new chapter, the couple is focused on a meaningful life. They say, “We’re most excited to carry forward our shared dream of a life that’s intentional and purpose-driven: filled with growth, adventure, deep connection and making a positive impact in our community.”

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Photography: Myio Okamoto
Julianna Cabili
Features Writer, Tatler Philippines
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