Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) and her friend Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) in Martha's bright, colourful apartment for the film 'The Room Next Door' (Photo: Ó El Deseo; Iglesias Más)
Cover Martha (played by Julianne Moore) and her friend Ingrid (played by Tilda Swinton) in Ingrid’s bright, colourful apartment for the film ‘The Room Next Door’ (Photo: Ó El Deseo; Iglesias Más)
Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) and her friend Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) in Martha's bright, colourful apartment for the film 'The Room Next Door' (Photo: Ó El Deseo; Iglesias Más)

Pedro Almodóvar’s ‘The Room Next Door’ builds a vibrant backdrop for deep connections with others despite—or because of—one’s inevitable death; spoilers ahead

For Confucius, “A healthy man wants a thousand things, a sick man only wants one.” The implication is that the sick only want to be well again, but what does that entail? Pedro Almodóvar’s The Room Next Door explores and subverts this adage, setting a vibrant scene that contrasts with the subject material’s startling grief. 

The Room Next Door is based on the novel What Are You Going Through by Sigrid Nunez. Upon the film’s premiere at the 81st Venice International Film Festival, it received the Golden Lion, a first for a Spanish film. At the 39th Goya Awards, the movie received three Goyas, including Best Adapted Screenplay, Best Cinematography, and Best Original Score. 

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Julianne Moore plays Ingrid, a successful writer whose latest novel explores her deep fear of death. During a book signing, she learns from a friend about Martha (Tilda Swinton), a former coworker from whom she has grown estranged. The two once worked together at a New York magazine in the 1980s before Martha left to become a war journalist. Determined to reconnect, Ingrid rushes to the hospital, where Martha, now terminally ill, reflects on her life.

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Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) at her book signing event (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Above Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) at her book signing event (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) at her book signing event (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)

Through a series of flashbacks, Martha revisits her past, starting with her teenage years in the 1970s. A brief college romance with Fred is cut short when he enlists in the Vietnam War, returning deeply traumatised. Even as they have a child, his psychological wounds drive them apart. This leads to Martha’s strained relationship with her daughter, Michelle, who resents her mother’s career-driven absence. These memories intertwine with Ingrid’s present-day reckoning. Her fear of death amplifies her guilt over losing touch with Martha and feeling helpless in the face of her illness.

A turning point emerges when Martha attempts to reconcile with Michelle by connecting her to Fred’s new wife, only to learn he perished in a fire. His final moments were haunted by hallucinations of cries for help—ghosts of his past that ultimately consumed him. This revelation irreparably severs Martha’s bond with Michelle, pushing her further into her war reporting.  

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Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) visiting her friend Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) at her apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Above Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) visiting her friend Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) at her apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) visiting her friend Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) at her apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)

Admittedly, the acting in the flashbacks felt rushed and subpar. This imbues the montage with a sense of unreality—viewers feel that they are being ‘told’ a story instead of being ‘shown’ it. Martha compresses her complex past into a film strip that she examines at will. It becomes a running issue throughout the movie, perhaps because the film was originally written in Spanish. A literal translation misses some of the linguistic and cultural nuances in each word. 

But in a way, that adds to the gravity of Martha’s illness. The past becomes one-dimensional, edges rounded off with how often she’s ruminated over her struggles. Swinton imbues her role of Martha with signature poise, delivering her lines in a matter-of-fact way that disguises the deep feelings beneath each word.

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Julianne Moore as Ingrid looking out the window of Tilda Swinton's apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Above Julianne Moore as Ingrid looking out the window of Tilda Swinton’s apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
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Tilda Swinton as Martha, looking out the window of her apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Above Tilda Swinton as Martha, looking out the window of her apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Julianne Moore as Ingrid looking out the window of Tilda Swinton's apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Tilda Swinton as Martha, looking out the window of her apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)

As a result of her struggles, Martha has obtained euthanasia pills and plans to take her own life before the next round of treatments begins. Ingrid reacts with the expected level of dismay, but Martha explains that this is how she wants to go. “I don’t want to suffer and suffer until my last breath,” she expresses. “You can’t be self-possessed if you’re in agony.” 

The movie’s name soon reveals its full meaning. Martha plans to go on a final vacation with Ingrid, with Ingrid staying in the room next door. Each morning, she will know that Martha has not taken her life if the door to her room is open.

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Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) moving into her apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Above Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) moving into her apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) moving into her apartment (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)

Ingrid is struck by Martha’s detached, clinical approach to death, constantly asking her if she wants to proceed with this. But Martha, who has never truly left the battlefield of her journalist days, sees this as another war. “Cancer is seen as a fight between patient and disease, good and evil,” she says. “If you lose, perhaps you didn’t fight hard enough. But people should see this as my way of fighting.” 

Looking past her initial reservations, Ingrid helps Martha move into the vacation home. Aside from the physical pain, Martha describes her loss of interest in daily activities, from listening to music to reading books. Nonetheless, Ingrid wants to make the most of the time left with her friend. All the while, she lives in anticipatory fear, at least until she sees Martha’s bedroom door open each morning. 

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Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) and her friend Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) watching a film at the vacation home upstate (Photo: Sony Classics)
Above Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) and her friend Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) watching a film at the vacation home upstate (Photo: Sony Classics)
Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) and her friend Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) watching a film at the vacation home upstate (Photo: Sony Classics)

Despite the bleakness of the subject material, Almodovar creates a dreamlike atmosphere in which the two women coexist. From the bold colours of their clothing to the playful furniture pieces and artwork on the wall, the eye-catching atmosphere infuses each interaction with a surreal edge. Moore took on her role well, exploring what it means to show up for the people we care about, even if their decisions misalign with conventional life paths.

Yet for all of the beauty in the film, one is still left with the feeling that much was left to be explored. The topics of euthanasia, cancer, and death are not new. But the space for that discussion was left more cavernous than when Almodóvar entered it. This leaves one to ponder the intricacies of translation: bringing the dialogue in a book to the stage, and carrying it over from Spanish to English. It may also have been more believable to ease Ingrid and Martha more seamlessly into a friendship.

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Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) and her friend Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) at the vacation home (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Above Martha (played by Julianne Moore) and her friend Ingrid (played by Tilda Swinton) at the vacation home (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)
Ingrid (played by Julianne Moore) and her friend Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) at the vacation home (Photo: The Room Next Door / Instagram)

Their relationship is at the core of this film, with many viewers speculating whether their bond was purely platonic. Exploring this grey area, teasing out its complexities, could have added more impact to the intimacy they cultivate while in the vacation home.

Nonetheless, the true value of the film lies in that gap between what viewers know will happen and when it does. With a touch of comedy, The Room Next Door still makes for an entertaining and visually appealing experience. It ultimately tasks viewers with a responsibility: to find brightness and meaning amid our brief, mundane lives, appreciating the people with whom we share such experiences. 

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Celine Dabao
Associate Editor for Tatler Homes, Tatler Philippines
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Celine Dabao

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Celine first read Charlotte’s Web at the age of five–and she hasn’t stopped turning pages since. Her favourite authors are Mona Awad and Nat Cassidy. Besides writing for Tatler, she listens to BTS and spends time with her family.  


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Celine took up secondary education with a major in English, graduating from De La Salle University in 2023. She advocates for female empowerment through creative expression by writing for Tatler Homes.  

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