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Cover Books about mental health encourage open conversations about mental health struggles. (Photo: Josh Hild / Unsplash)
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These books, highlighted for Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month, offer insight, strength and proof that vulnerability can lead to change

Men’s mental health remains shrouded in silence, often constrained by outdated notions of masculinity that discourage vulnerability. Yet within the pages of these novels and memoirs lies narratives of healing and transformation. As we observe Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month this June, these stories offer inspiring portrayals of protagonists, both male and female, who confront the complicated reality of mental health struggles, from anxiety and depression to the impact of societal pressures.

These stories not only highlight individual battles, which resonate with readers facing similar challenges, but also encourage open conversations about mental health and the importance of asking for help in times of distress. And although not all narratives have a happy ending, they remind us that it’s never too late to rewrite our story, no matter the obstacles we face.

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1. ‘Fleishman Is In Trouble’ by Taffy Brodesser-Akner

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Fleishman Is In Trouble by Taffy Brodesser-Akner (Photo: Random House)
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Fleishman Is In Trouble by Taffy Brodesser-Akner (Photo: Random House)

Taffy Brodesser-Akner’s sharp, satirical novel presents Toby Fleishman, a 41-year-old hepatologist whose carefully constructed life unravels when his ex-wife leaves him, forcing him to navigate single parenthood and his own midlife crisis. Through humour and heartbreak, the story explores how men’s identities can become subsumed by societal expectations of providers and stoic figures. Toby’s journey forces him to confront his anxieties and rebuild his sense of self beyond marriage and career pressures. The narrative demonstrates that midlife upheaval, while challenging, can become an opportunity for authentic self-discovery and emotional growth.

2. ‘Bear With Me Now’ by Katie Shepard

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Bear With Me Now by Katie Shepard (Photo: Berkley)
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Bear With Me Now by Katie Shepard (Photo: Berkley)

Katie Shepard’s novel follows Teagan van Zijl, a foundation executive who finds himself hospitalised for panic attacks two years after his mother’s death. Reluctantly dragged to a wilderness therapy retreat by his sister, Teagan initially resists this unconventional approach to healing. However, the natural setting and therapeutic framework provide him with tools to process his grief and depression meaningfully. The story illustrates that healing is indeed a journey, not a destination, and that various therapeutic methods can offer profound transformation. It normalises seeking professional help as a courageous choice rather than an admission of failure.

3. ‘A Little Life’ by Hanya Yanagihara

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A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara (Photo: Doubleday)

Hanya Yanagihara’s ambitious novel centres on Jude St Francis, a brilliant lawyer whose traumatic childhood continues to haunt his adult life through self-harm and profound depression. while the book doesn’t shy away from difficult themes, its true power lies in portraying the unwavering friendship between four men navigating life’s complexities together. The enduring bonds between Jude, Willem, JB and Malcolm demonstrate how meaningful connections can provide crucial support systems during our darkest moments. The novel suggests that while recovery may be non-linear and complex, love and friendship remain powerful forces in the journey toward healing.

4. ‘It’s Kind of a Funny Story’ by Ned Vizzini

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It’s Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini (Photo: Disney Hyperion)

Ned Vizzini’s poignant novel follows 15-year-old Craig Gilner, who makes the brave decision to check himself into a psychiatric hospital when his depression and anxiety become overwhelming. Through his week-long stay, Craig discovers that seeking help is not shameful but empowering. His interactions with fellow patients and mental health professionals help him realise that his illness doesn’t define him entirely. The story concludes with genuine hope and optimism as Craig develops coping strategies and embraces a more balanced approach to life, proving that recovery is possible with proper support and treatment.

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5. ‘One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest’ by Ken Kesey

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One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest by Ken Kesey

A literary classic that has been adapted into an Academy Award-winning film, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest is a critique of how mental health patients are treated by the psychiatric system. New patient Randle McMurphy seeks to upend the authority of the all-powerful Nurse Ratched, enjoining other patients to follow the path of non-conformity and fight against the ward’s dehumanising treatments. Throughout the book, McMurphy defies the rules of the psychiatric hospital, leading to several antics against the controlling nurse and a climactic showdown that results in drastic action. One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest has been lauded for baring the truths about mental health treatment, leading to more discussion and compassion about mental health issues.

6. ‘I Want to Die But I Want to Eat Tteokbokki’ by Baek Sehee

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I Want to Die But I Want to Eat Tteokbokki by Baek Se-hee
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I Want to Die But I Want to Eat Tteokbokki by Baek Se-hee

In this memoir, author Baek Sehee illustrates the balance between despair and desire, showing how people can struggle with depression and still reach for little joys, which, in this case, is the tteokbokki, the chewy South Korean rice cake treat. The social media director, who struggles with dysthymia, a persistent form of mild depression, hides her anxiety and self-doubt well, but the effort is taxing, leading her to seek help from a psychiatrist. In the narrative, she details her experiences with therapy, presenting her conversations with her psychiatrist and her reflections on her mental health journey. Apart from resonating with readers facing similar challenges, the popular book lifts the stigma of seeking help from a therapist or psychiatrist to overcome mental health struggles.

7. ‘The Midnight Library’ by Matt Haig

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The Midnight Library by Matt Haig

Matt Haig’s portrayal of depression has earned The Midnight Library the Goodreads Choice Award for Fiction in 2020. After an attempt to end her life, Nora Seed finds herself in the Midnight Library filled with books that detail alternate versions of her life had she made different choices. Existing between life and death, the magical library allows the protagonist to confront her regrets and dreams and, ultimately, deal with her depression. Through Nora’s explorations, the book challenges the definition of what happiness and failure mean for each person, reminding readers that it is never too late to change your point of view about your life.

8. ‘Highly Illogical Behavior’ by John Corey Whaley

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Highly Illogical Behavior by John Corey Whaley
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Highly Illogical Behavior by John Corey Whaley

John Corey Whaley’s novel explores two illogical behaviours: Solomon Reed, a teenager who has not left his house in three years due to agoraphobia, and his classmate Lisa Praytor, who, together with her boyfriend Clark, seeks to help him overcome his fear so she can write about it for her college application. The three grow closer but their friendship is tested when the truth is revealed. Highly Illogical Behavior illustrates how the complicated journey toward self-acceptance is riddled with ups and downs, while emphasising the importance of connection to overcome mental health struggles.

9. ‘My Year of Rest and Relaxation’ by Ottessa Moshfegh

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My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Ottessa Moshfegh

Ottessa Moshfegh’s My Year of Rest and Relaxation offers a satirical commentary on what it means to be alive in an increasingly complicated world. The unnamed protagonist—a young, beautiful woman working in New York’s art scene—grows disillusioned by her life and embarks on an experiment: to shut out the world and sleep for a year. She is prescribed downers by her psychiatrist, fills up on her prescriptions at the bodega and muddles through the few relationships she has left. Eventually, her pill-popping experiment catches up on her when she starts to experience blackouts, leading to the further unravelling of her already small world. The critically acclaimed novel critiques the allure of escapism as a means of self-preservation, while revealing how true healing comes from confronting pain rather than avoiding it.

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Clifford Olanday
Regional Editor, T-Labs, Tatler Asia
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After more than a decade in lifestyle media, Clifford has mastered the art of writing seriously about things that are fun—and writing fun things about people who take themselves very seriously. At Tatler Asia, he helped steer its flagship lists, Tatler’s Most Influential and Asia’s Most Stylish. And today, he leads T-Labs, Tatler Asia’s content innovation hub, where he continues the noble pursuit of lifestyle storytelling, spinning stories on wealth, entertainment, necessary style, Hallyu, Hollywood, beauty and more for audiences across Asia.