In a home where artistry meets appetite, Ballet Philippines President Maymay Liechtenstein turns entertaining into a sensory spectacle—where no detail is too daring and every meal is an unforgettable experience
“I love to eat,” declares Maymay Liechtenstein, her face lighting up with irrepressible warmth. Her joy is infectious, much like the famously theatrical dinners she hosts—fabled throughout Manila for their exuberance, originality and immersive flair. Step into her ornately decorated home— designed purely for entertaining—and be immediately transported into a world where fantasy reigns and the everyday is swept aside.
Also known as Kathleen Liechtenstein, she is the dynamic president of Ballet Philippines and a longstanding advocate for the arts and women’s rights. With over two decades of service with the company—first as a trustee and now as its president—she has played a crucial role in shaping the institution’s enduring legacy. But beyond the stage, Liechtenstein is equally revered for her unforgettable dinners, where menus, ambience and artistry collide in bold, beautiful harmony.
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Above Maximalist dining experiences with Maymay Liechtenstein

Above Maximalist dining experiences with Maymay Liechtenstein
Her love for food began at home, sparked by the influence of her lola. “She would always set aside Sunday afternoons to bake with me—even when I was just six years old,” Liechtenstein recalls fondly. “We’d make angel cake the old-fashioned way, hand-beating everything and icing with hot syrup.” Beyond this, she wasn’t allowed in the kitchen as a child; so she watched from the sidelines, captivated by the culinary rituals unfolding before her. It wasn’t until after getting married that she began experimenting in her own kitchen, finding joy in creating meals and helping her husband host business dinners.
As she matured, Liechtenstein refined her palate through a rich tapestry of global dining experiences, from elegant tasting menus to thoughtfully curated à la carte offerings. After marriage, she delighted in sharing the sensory pleasures of food and dining with her children, nurturing in them the same appreciation for culinary artistry. Over the years, however, she began to observe a growing uniformity across restaurant concepts worldwide—a repetition of ideas that, to her discerning eye, signalled a troubling lack of originality. While she has always loved being larger than life and maximalist in style, from home decor to fashion, it was this turning point that triggered a shift in how she entertained at home.

Above Maximalist dining experiences with Maymay Liechtenstein

Above Maximalist dining experiences with Maymay Liechtenstein
“This is me. It’s my way of expressing myself, expressing what’s inside. I love to create,” she says, beaming with contentment. In her wavy kaftan, Liechtenstein shares that she doesn’t run ideas by her family because they often say “Mum, that’s weird”—to which she would chuckle and retort, “Don’t clip my wings”! Previously, she worked in the world of perfumes for decades. This creative industry changed her perspective and further awakened her artistic senses.
Her years working with fragrances sharpened her artistic instincts, helping her cultivate a strong sense for aesthetics, emotion and storytelling—skills she now channels into every element of her hosting. Today, each dinner is a full-blown production: immersive, whimsical and unlike anything else in town.
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“I avoid repeating menus. I prefer to get to know my guests and craft something uniquely tailored for them. After all, it’s the company that truly defines the experience; it’s what transforms a meal into something memorable,” she expresses. To this host, the company you keep is key, and making people happy is her elixir to a joyful life. Seeing her friends’ wild reactions, stunned faces and delighted palates is the ultimate satisfaction. “The best ingredient in cooking is the company that we share it with,” she says with a knowing nod.

Above Maximalist dining experiences with Maymay Liechtenstein

Above Maximalist dining experiences with Maymay Liechtenstein
Entering Liechtenstein’s home (mind you, she has one just for entertaining, a stone’s throw away from her residence) is like stepping into a fascinating universe. Designed with intense whimsicality and a curiosity for surrealism, it is filled with striking decorative art pieces and mobiles that twist and turn, many of them by the late kinetic art proponent Gabby Barredo. Appetisers are presented on a large silver statue of intertwined hands, inviting guests to grab dried fruits, a variety of cheese and an array of nuts right out of their palms. The buffet spread with light bites to start the night is already a play of heights with peaks and valleys, and rivers of snacks, tempting guests to embark on their own tasty adventure.
The dining table itself is a maximalist marvel, layered with towering floral arrangements, curious objects and crockery sourced from her global travels. She serves on stone, wood and even glass containers with live fish swimming beneath the dishes. Plates are hand-picked, sometimes featuring guests’s faces printed on desserts. Every object tells a story; she is able to recount delightful tales about each piece, sharing a memory of a trip, or an encounter with a craftsman.
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Above Maximalist dining experiences with Maymay Liechtenstein

Above Maximalist dining experiences with Maymay Liechtenstein
But the artistry doesn’t end at the table. As a self-taught cook, Liechtenstein spends days sketching menus, only finalising them in the hours before dinner, while she cooks. Her approach is intuitive, like painting: she layers flavour, texture and colour with instinctive precision. Her imagination is intricately woven into her food as each tasting menu unfolds. Dishes aren’t merely plated; they are performed.
Remarkably, she never outsources the work to caterers. Instead, she’s trained her home team to deliver banquet-style service as she regularly hosts 30 to 60 guests. “It’s all in the planning,” she says with conviction. In fact, Liechtenstein sources a lot of her ingredients from overseas, continuing her relationship with tried and tested foreign purveyors. She contacts them in advance and flies in what she needs for each occasion, much to her guests’s delight. “Food for me is my love language, like you cannot be in the house without eating,” Liechtenstein shares with a smile.

Above Maximalist dining experiences with Maymay Liechtenstein
Liechtenstein’s dinners are more than meals. They are stories told through scent, sight, sound and taste—a testament to a life lived with passion, curiosity and a deep love for others. In her world, hospitality is not simply a gesture; it’s an art form.
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